How can i let this guy know i like him without telling him or asking him out?I saw him last night and totally messed up and i think he might have asked me out if i didn`t blank him,so wot can i do now to let him know,i`ll prob see him on saturday night at his work,advice appreciated,thanx.p.s i`m quite shy!!
2007-03-07 06:56:07 · 22 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're biggest "scare" is that he might turn you down. Tell yourself this is not the issue. You have nothing to lose because if he sais no then at least you did your best for yourself. If you worry and don't ask then you've let yourself down. Pluck up courage and go for it for your own sake - love number one and you can then love others.
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2007-03-07 07:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by 9thwonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How "forward" to be is always a problem initially. If you take extra time talking to him, usually he will muster enough courage to ask you out. The male ego is oftimes fragile and he must usually feel some certainty that you do like him and will not turn him down. If he does and you are working or have some other commitment...explain in a way that he doesn't take as a "brush off". Suggest a better time and he will be grateful actually that he will not have to muster courage to ask later.
2007-03-07 15:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bill C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst go up and start having a wee convo with him ask him stuff like wot he is gettin up 2 at the weekend who knows he myt ask u if u want to do something with him. u said u are a shy girl but jst have confidence in urself chat away to him and hope everything goes well for u
2007-03-07 15:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For oen thing, don't play mind games like that, despite what your friends and or family members would tell you, most guys hate that sort of thing. Even if you are shy, just let them know sooner rather than putting things off, or you could spend the rest of your life wth a large "What if?" hanging over you.
2007-03-07 14:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why must we always front like we are not intrested, when we really are? Just be real, the only way he is going to know that you like him is if YOU tell him. Guys are not smart enough or patient enough to play games like most women are, so I just say be straight with him. P.S as long as this relationship has been going on for longer than 5 mins!
2007-03-07 15:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blank him? What does this mean?
I suggest that you ask to hang out with him and see if anything happens and if he asks you to hang out other than work related places then thats a good sign and see where it goes from there. He may not be sure if you like him and he is waiting on your move!
2007-03-07 15:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by ☆Ele☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got to tell him, but don't do it in front of someone, they might laugh, and so you are stupid. i use to has a crush on this boy named Chris H. but just a month ago he got a girlfriend, so I don't worry about him anymore. So you need to let him or she go!
2007-03-07 15:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why are you wanting out is there a reason why have you found a person that is better than he is i think that you should tell the true .tell how you really fell than dump him in a nice way.
2007-03-07 15:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by joshua p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to the first guy! Just flirt with him and just give him signs to let him now that you like him with actually ******* him! GOOD LUCK
2007-03-07 14:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt. Leave hints. Laugh at his jokes. Be smart (not too smart) in front of him.
Or, ask a friend to ask him out for you!
2007-03-07 14:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by KateBea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋