there is one issue which she lies to me about, but it is a truth i just HAVE TO KNOW. it is extremely frustrating to remain cheated.
2007-03-07 06:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by loner_redknight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is easy. You can't!! You can't make her tell the truth. Unless you get nosy and start digging into her ****. But that wouldn't be right on your part. Sometimes you just have to live with being cheated and move on. You don't deserve it, but you can't make them do anything. No matter how right you are.
2007-03-07 07:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this woman is constantly lying to you why stay? Why listen? What makes you think she will ever tell you the truth of all she tells is lies?
2007-03-07 07:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying is a habit ...it's not something you can just stop doing. if she constantly lies you may want to just leave her alone. you probably dont trust her anymore so even if she tries to tell the truth u wont believe her. Talk to her about it but don't be surprised if nothing changes.
2007-03-07 07:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.....you can't make someone who is a compulsive liar all of a sudden become honest. Even if you have evidence that she is lying and put it in her face they will either one not say anything because they can not think that quick on their feet or two she will turn it around after being confronted and make it seem like it is your fault. To them they are justifying the lie in their head, by telling themselves they don't want to hurt you, they don't want to cause conflict.......either way this is a learned trait and unless they want to change and acknowledge they have a problem they won't change.
2007-03-07 07:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone tell you the truth...they either want to be honest or not. If she lies to you all the time then maybe you need to find someone to give your heart and energy to that WON"T lie to you.
2007-03-07 07:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ken R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why waste your time in a relationship that is full of lies. you cant change a person they have to change for themselves. if someone has to feel that they must lie at every corner then they have a major problem. read tips on love an relationships to help you more on this site
2007-03-07 07:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been married for over 21 years so please do no longer enable this destroy your relationship. My advice is to no longer provide potential to his "habit". authentic, married persons will nonetheless seem on the girls and adult males now and lower back, yet whilst your husband is going to the severe, then you could point out it to him on the authentic 2d. don't get enraged or disillusioned; in simple terms renowned the certainty that the female probable does no longer get excitement from being stared at as he's doing... each so often it facilitates to assert (no longer shout) it loud sufficient for the female to hearken to
2016-11-23 13:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away, brother. Lying and not responding like that is absolutly corrosive to the soul - it will drive you crazy, and more important, can actually injure you emotionally. RUN, don't walk, away. Sorry to say.
2007-03-07 07:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by All hat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple you leave her and find another. Life's too short for BS.
2007-03-07 07:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell you, or its over. simple as that. lying and not being able to trust someone will tare you up.
2007-03-07 06:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by innstrumentalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋