ok, i liked this guy (and kinda still do) for like 2 years now, and for some reason i cannot let go...BUT somebody new came along, and i was starving for my first relationship...so he seemed to really like me...and i liked him...he asked me out, told me he really LOVED me and felt so great to have me, then talked to me that Monday at school...then online some...then when i went to school the next day, he didnt say a word to me, and that night, broke up with me online. i was so sad...inever did my homework or anything...and took a nap. later i got on to see his ex talking to him online, (this was on myspace) and turns out he used me to get her back, but she had a bf...well, i got SO flippin mad...and now it has been almost 2 months and i am still ... i dunno...sad...and mad...and when i think there are like, no other guys for me now... WHAT DO I DO?!
2007-03-07 06:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it hurts but let it go it's not worth it to make a scene. he's a dog and she'll dump his *** in due time. This time though you won't be his puppet. First rule any guy who "loves you" after a day is a guy you should stay away from him... it's not love and the next guy will take your virginity, not just your heart and leave you just as confused.
2007-03-07 07:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trust has been broken and this is a hard pill to swallow. It is apparent to me that this dude was not interested in you in the first place. He was stringing you along... using you... just plain using you to fill in the blank. Chances are he had a girl and you were the last to know. Move on Honeychild...
This is a childish situation and homeboy easn't ready for a relationship. It is sad that men and boys treat women like they are a novelty but... look what you were working with. Let it go sister. You are beautiful and I am sure you deserve a boyfriend who will treat you like you should be treated... A QUEEN!
Move on.. stay in the game.. get over it. I don't know how old you are but by the time you get my age you can count on your heart being hurt several more times. Such is life baby.
2007-03-07 15:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by fatbabyceesay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couple of things you want to learn from this:
1. Don't ever trust a guy when he says he loves you at the early stages of a relationship. Serious guys (men who are not out to use a relationship as a weapon) get to know a woman and the eval process can take awhile before we open up about our "feelings".
2. Try to evaluate guys on more than just cuteness. Remember, looks fade eventually. So imagine if your stuck with a "cute" guy with a bad attitude.
2007-03-07 15:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until after the anger leaves before you try any type of new relationship. Remain single for a while. Figure out who you are first without someone else to prop you up. Then, when you do enter a relationship you'll be more self confident.
2007-03-07 15:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard to get over someone..And mostly when you loved them and you thought they loved you. You should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and mabe that will make him realize that he made a huge mistake by leaving you. Or if you tell him then you might start getting over him. I think that was wrong for him to do that to you, and he prob. lost a great girl w/ it. So talk to him..Everytime I'm not sure about it or cant get over something i let my feelings out and talk to my boyfriend or talk to my best friends.
2007-03-07 14:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss get over it...if he told you he loved you after not knowing you but for short time...he dont know what love is...and neither do you...that should have been your 1st red flag, but you are young and you will find that what is worth having is worth waiting on...being lonely isnt a crime, and it happens to us all at some point in life...learn from it, and just move on.....
2007-03-07 14:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well date someone else i'm the same way a girl won't date me my gf is cheating on me but i'm about to ditch her and i'm looking for love in my state that i can see often so just find a guy that looks desent and give him a try ;) good luck ;)
2007-03-07 14:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to move on. everybody is mistreated one way or another. Don't spend all your time stressing about this. He is a Jerk but karma is a B***h,it will be handled . Be strong and good luck.
2007-03-07 15:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm 13 and i'm going through exactly the same thing but i've had a few relationships never like that but that's life he's a ***** deal with it
2007-03-07 15:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by niall p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go kick hisbut and tell him why after all you did
2007-03-07 14:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by kitty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋