my problem is i have been going out with this girl maybe for a month now.and im in love with her and she also told that she loves me.and one thing she told me that she have never been faithfull to her ex boyfriends,maybe only two of them,and she told me that she wont do that to me coz she loves me.i dont know what to do because im not sure about that,but i really love her.and i dont wanna loose her.please someone help me what to do.she tells me all her past stories,all her ex boyfriends,so sometimes it makes me looose hope and feel so down.
2007-03-07 06:50:37 · 14 answers · asked by icecold 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should ask her her reasons for cheating on her ex's?! Not that there's a good reason, but you might get some insight!
2007-03-07 06:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should feel Lose Hope or Feel down.. Why she have not been faithful to her 2 ex BF because they musted done something make her do that... and She knows that you are way different than her 2 ex... and talk to her more and find out wht really happen to ex did the 2 ex done something to you made you do the same thing not being faithful?? or what the Different between me and 2 ex BF??? you have to start asking questions if she won't tell you something she not telling the truth if she can't look in your eyes telling you what happen with 2 ex-BF then soemthing she hiding from.. there a things you need to clear it up make sure now before to late. Don't wait until it happen talk to her now before you can decided what you want to do...
2007-03-07 14:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she has yet to cheat on you so chill out. Give her the benefit of the doubt. You don't know how the ex's treated her or what was going on. Maybe she was just being wild and is ready to settle down. Women are a little different than men. All women eventually want to settle down eventually. She's probably done with the highly active social life and is ready for a steady relationship that will eventually lead somewhere (think biological clock and wedding bells).
2007-03-07 14:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to what i have to say since i was in this position before.My first girlfriend was more experienced in relationships by the time she met me.She would constantly refer to past interests and boyfriends.Due to my inexperience i let her do this but held a grudge and it festered inside.I would even think of trying to make her jealous because as a guy i still had some pride and wanted to hurt her.
What i'm trying to say to you is that you have to stop her from doing what you don't like.That doesn't mean telling her off.Just do it politely.You say"i don't like it how you are making me feel.If you care for me then please don't talk about your boyfriends to me"If she asks why you did not tell her before then be up front with her.Believe me she will understand if she loves you and she will respect you more in the end.But remember to do it sensibly and without getting too nervous and emotional.After all she is a girl and she wants to see you as a guy who has strength and sensitivity.
2007-03-07 15:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by tylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advise there is just be honest and let her be her. If she really loves you then have trust but dont make it where she want anyone else show her that you love her be there for her, do everything that you too love to do.. becuse moeny cant buy love.. when you get involved with someone to keep it you have to be honest and always be able to communiate with each other.. thos are the main source to keeping what you have.. i hope this has helped ya....
2007-03-07 14:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by kristy_n_tx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are needy and immature, no girl is worth what you are doing to yourself.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If she cheated on her other boyfriends, she will cheat on you. Doesn't matter if she says she won't, I sure she told them the same thing.
Move on before she breaks your heart, and there is no doubt she will.
You are holding on too tight, be a man and dump her now.
2007-03-07 14:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change and maybe she has but I doubt it.
In my opinion a person's track record is still the best means of predicting their future actions.
I think you should get out while you still have both halves of a broken heart to try to restore to wholeness.
2007-03-07 15:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...well, in my experience, people who cheat do it more than once, so I'd be careful. Its good that she was honest with you, and that shows she really cares, but as the newness wears off she might end up cheating.
I dont say this to be mean, just so you will be aware of what may happen.
2007-03-07 14:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really loves you..then she should be faithfull to you. Just trust her..See if she changes around you and starts to be faithfull.
2007-03-07 14:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI IM KIARA AND I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BUT JUST TRUST HER AND PRAY THAT SHE IS NOT MESSING AROUND SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER FACE TO FACE AND TELL HER HOW YOU FELL AND YOU SHOULD NEVER GIVE UP ON SOMEONE YOU CANT GO A DAY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT
2007-03-07 15:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋