U'll see a man going out with a lady for years and years but hesistate to marry her. A paradox is that he'll really show all her love to her and be there for her but for him to actually marry her would be a very difficult thing to do. WHY WHY WHY man?
2007-03-07 06:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by worldcomingtoanend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can hardly wait to read the answers.
2007-03-07 06:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men are reluctant to get married, but rather that man does not want to be his future wife's 316th selection.
One of the questions that run through a guy's mind before popping the question, particularly in the 21th century, is how many people has she been with. Not necessarily in a sexual sense, but in a relationship sense, and most importantly… why hadn't any of those guys asked to marry her?
This question, unfortunately, is a big key! How many jerks, idiots, chesters, melvins and losers did she date before meeting you, #316 on her list, because women DO NOT LIKE NICE GUYS!!!
Here's a couple questions you want to ask her before you propose: 1) am i the first guy for anything in your life (ie, first kiss, first midnight date, first sleepover, first trip down anal lane); and 2) what did you do with someone else that you will not do with me?
If she actually answers No. 2 and not No. 1, DO NOT MARRY HER. You're her nice guy after she's had all her fun!
Hope it helps!
2007-03-07 15:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The laws are set up against men in the marriage dept. They have more to lose. Also why would anyone want to get married when 1 out of every 2 marriages end in divorce.
2007-03-07 14:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of men are not like that. Some are afraid of making it legal. Other just don't want to get tied down in case someone better comes along.
2007-03-07 14:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think all men are scared to get married , just the guy you talk too. not all men are the same , my man just asked me if i would marry him - i never answered though. women are like that too.
2007-03-07 14:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear factor. i have known some men that are in relationships for the sex and they are still looking for ms right. stinks huh!
2007-03-07 14:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of commitment!
2007-03-07 14:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋