so ive been talkin to this guy for bout 2 years now. i no him pretty well. fist we've been good friends. now after a year n a half of talkin over myspace IM n stuff i fell for him as so he did for me. i love him n he loves me. but he said he'll come visit me sometime this spring with his parents. but he hasnt mentioned anything bout goin to c me in a while like 2 months. should i say somethin to him bout it? im 15 hes 16. i trust him n love him. n i no who he is hes not a pervert or anything. so plzz no rude answers. i dont wanna seem rude n stuff.... but should i mention somethin bout him comin to visit me? if so how? or maybe he jus doesnt wanna anymore? =(
TY fo all the answers
2007-03-07 06:39:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two years is an awfully long time for a pervert to play an act, and he said his parents would come with him, so I would bet he's on the up and up.
Bring it up. Realize that he may not have told his parents about you and he may be too embarassed to tell them about it. But he still has to tell you that. If he doesn't, then he doesn't really trust you to be himself.
Let your parents know what's going on and insist on them being there with you and your guy and his parents when you do meet. If there's any hint of that being a problem, then drop him like a hot potato.
2007-03-07 06:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Monc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll first of all just be careful because you never rteally know who you are talking to. How can you be sure? But if you have taken the necessary precautions and you feel that this is right then the way to find out isn't that hard. Just mention in casual that your break from school is coming up soon and you wantewd to know if he was still coming and if it coincided with your break. This way you don't seem as if you are pressuring him but you will find out the information that you need. If it doesn't coincide then ask politely when he thought hew might make it down because you wanted to get some ideas of what you guys could do or where would be good places to go. Good luck.
2007-03-07 06:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reconsider whether you can really be in love with someone you've only written to. In person, people can be very different. You're also pretty young. Beware - you don't know if he's even the age he says he is.
If you could get a group of kids together and have them all type e-mails to you on the computer, about every kind of subject, are you confident that you could match the e-mails to the kids if you met them in person? I guarantee you that you wouldn't be 100% accurate in matching them up.
A shy guy can be bold in print (he doesn't have to coverse in person, just write) and vice versa.
Be careful. Maybe he doesn't want to come because he knows the person won't match the words.
2007-03-15 01:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a real relationship. You do this because its safe and so does he. I suggest finding a guy that lives near you that you can actually date. You are wasting your time doing this. On line chatting is so superficial, and a little unhealthy. I think your scared of really getting hurt so you talk to this guy on line who can't hurt you. Getting dumped is a fact of life, if you don't take a chance then you are simply missing out on something real.
2007-03-15 03:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell him how you are feeling, otherwise you will imagine yourself into some very real pain. At least give him the chance to explain and this will aslo teach him about remaining connected to someone he loves. For you it is important to speak your mind, be brave! You are worth the effort this needs.
2007-03-14 20:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a car, money, or transportation to your place, he'll have to reply on his parents. You can ask if he's given it any more thought, but it sounds like this is all up to his parents- they may have no intention of visiting where you are.
2007-03-07 06:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya its sounds like your ready to run away 2gether so I hope he can afford a couple greyhound tickets!
Have fun but don't forget to go back home after.
2007-03-07 06:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same postion your in but i'm 17 and my bf is 17 but my bf is coming in july and i'm from oregon and he's from pa, but i've known my bf for 3 years know and 2 months ago he asked me if its ok for him to come here to see me and meet my family, when i told my parents my mom was ok with it but my dad didn't like it at all but, my dad is starting to come around, but your bf probably hasnt mentioned it because he doesn't have the money or his parents wont let him come, but i would ask him if he still wants to come and see you, thats the best thing you can do is just ask.
2007-03-07 06:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but if he hasn't mentioned it in over 2 months, it's very likely that his feelings have changed.
2007-03-07 06:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know her that well, maybe. but you shouldnt be caring about that. right now, how do you think she feels? does she "love" you too? if you do make a move, take the relationship slow. dont lose ur cool (dont be an idiot and take it fast and act crazy and all that other stuff) take it slow and give her time to realize how she really feels about you
2016-03-28 22:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋