my bf n i broke up few month ago and just recently we been seeing/going out toghether for like a month now. we agree to take things slow. take it day by day he said he is afraid to commit now. however, we are intimate too.
anyways, we use to chat online cus we both go online at work. he recently got a new job and he is in training now. so we dont really talk . he actually called me yesterday to say thx for the text message i sent on monday. he said he isnt ignoring me or anything.
i felt uneasy at first because i thought he didnt want to talk to me anymore so i was going nuts.
but why do i still feel down and not happy? in my mind, i keep thinkin about the negative things =(
i dont wanna assume things but i keep doing it. is something wrong with me? how do i make myself feeel happy or better and not worry ?
2007-03-07 06:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To make yourself happier: think about the future, not past. Or only think about the good times.
Reality: It's hard to restart a relationship that stopped or suffered massive trauma. It's hard to end a relationship and leave it at that. I've tried both. If you just end it and leave it then it will eventually get better. If you can't pick yourself up and not feel down, then you will not be able to pick the relationship up. I have seen at least a dozen couples try again at failed relationships and have only seen one couple suceed. It isn't common. Whatever you decide, good luck.
2007-03-07 06:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told to always think + not negative . They say when you think negative than bad things will happen. So keep your head up and look for better days. No your not crazy u just have a lot of feeling for this guy. I will pray for u and your relationship. To you people who get on here and make fun or have smart comment. Get a life u suppose to answer the question if you can help not to make smart a** comments look at your self before u talk.
2007-03-07 14:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by lil mama 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is called "OBSESSION"
You are practically obsessed with this guy. That is not healthy, you cannot go day by day waiting for him to show up, e-mail you or text message you. I am sure it is not what you want to do, but you have to let it go. Don't lug around him like a puppy, waiting for him to be ready to commit. He is toying with you because you are satisfying his manly needs since he knows you are giving it to him easily. If he doesn't want to commit, then it is more than obvious that he doesn't love you. Cause when you love someone, you always want to be with them, right? RIGHT ! So then? If you really want him to commit, turn the tables around. Make him suffer, then he'll "probably" want you. Cause haven't you heard,... People usually Want what they Can't have !
2007-03-07 14:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Life Is Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I got it. When you can cheat your boss out of his money by chating on-line with your boyfriend everything is great. But now he can't and you don't trust him so your ready to throw it all away again. Girl get some mental help fast.
2007-03-07 14:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't loose marbles. You lose them. Check Spelling. Do us all a favor.
2007-03-07 14:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to give you a reasurance.
2007-03-07 14:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you have really lost your marbles
2007-03-07 14:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋