Uhhh...I really don't jave the nervers to handle those "things" anymore(I mean the gilrs), I think they are all freaks. I mean 2 days ago I chated with one girl in mirc and he said several times how much she likes me and wants to meet me...but now she disappeared. I hate this, I try to find a girl 5 years already...everyone says "you are so handsome" and so on...
But nothing...probably I need to turn gay, I don't want to be alone anymore
2007-03-07 06:37:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Excuse me about the misspelling...I was just a little bit nervous...
2007-03-07 06:39:05 · update #1
With the attitude you have is it any wonder you attract girls like that?
Laid back approach [as in on the computer] people aren't themselves through here, lets face it.
You reap what you sow.
Most girls are still trying to find an easy medium in the ***** stakes, just most girls figure out the difference in taking no **** and giving out unwarrented ****.
Relax and follow most of the advice above, you'll get a girl then and dont put too much pressure on them or they'll run
2007-03-15 07:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, to a degree all girls are B's, I'm one so I can say that, and any girl that disagrees with me is a B. Because we can all be nice, but it's in us, deep down if not on the surface, I used to be the sweetest person, had a million friends, the girl that was the girl to be, then I grew up, quit letting people use me, walk over me, and take things that I knew deep down were mine for the taking. So yes all girls are B's.
Now your problem is that most guys are D's.
Yes, insensitive jerks, that believe all things that go wrong are becuase girls are B's.
Have you stepped back and looked at your chat pages with this girl(or any other girl)to see if maybe you might have said something that was tasteless, or wrong.If not well then maybe if they are chating with you they are chating with others as well.
It's a dog eat dog world, you just gotta get out there and "bark and bite", in the real world that is, not chatting it up on a computer. I think this is the lazy persons approach to finding a date. Get out there and get around people, at a club, park, skating rink, mall, organization, do somethings to get to know people, not people that when they finally meet you, run the other way or chat with someone with a better "resume" than yours and decide that without even meeting you that they have found better pastures.
Get off this computer and go out into your community and find love or friendship there.
If you have some deep seated emotions, maybe you need to come out of the closet.
If not then don't say things like that because you could offend the gay community by saying that is a last resort, get over it, life is full of ups and downs.
2007-03-15 06:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think gay is an alternative to girls. I think if that is true, then it truly is the 'lazy way' to get along in life. You're not making much of an effort - if you're alone, it's because you haven't invited a girl into your life and tried to make her happy because you like or love her.
What do you think? That gay is like going to the take-out window at McDonald's and getting into a relationship with a girl is like dressing up for a nice meal in a restaurant? Could be. Get some energy together and stop waiting for love to fall into your life. It has nothing to do with being handsome - it has to do with being a warm, caring person!
2007-03-15 07:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, just because a girl doesn't want to talk to you does not make her a B. Maybe she was turned off by your lack of writing skills and forming a simple sentence. I mean, you're chatting for the love of Pete.
Try meeting people face to face...work on your personal approach. And relax....either way, it is not all that serious dude.
2007-03-07 06:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...calm down....we aren't all bitches. Don't go gay just because you can't find the right girl yet. Internet dating isn't cool so just don't do that. How about you and your friends go somewhere and just talk to a few girls. Get there numbers. Start getting to know them and who knows, maybe there will be something there for you. Don't give up. I'm a girl and iI never thought that I would find a guy for me. I finally did and I'm happy. So don't give up just yet. I am cheering you on! ^_^ WOOT! lol
2007-03-07 06:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by When Love And Death Embrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing first, if you like and love women, dont turn gay. nothing against gay people. you have been searching for five years now, maybe you come off to strong. just take it easy and when its time for love to come, it will come. all women can be bitches but there are really not. just like women think all men are dogs. ***** and dog mean the same thing so women dont be offended. let love be and enjoy being single
2007-03-15 07:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If every chick is a b*tch to u and you haven't been able to get a girl in over 5 years and your claim to being handsome is true, then it's definitely not girls, the problem lies with you.
2007-03-07 06:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it so funny how men have been playing this game for ever now in say the last ten years so have we and it has you guys second guessing your sexuality. Ha welcome to our world. And just wait till you feel like it's not our fault but yours that's great for the confidence. Don't wanna hurt your feelings but suck it up princess
2007-03-15 05:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, quit worrying about the girls, Tythey can be a bit exhausting,I'm sure you are a nice looking guy?and sweet and understanding,quit looking,when you quit, that's when they'll all start coming around, then you'll have-another problem?which one?really it will happen, just relax and be your self, in time you'll meet the one for you,just have faith and confidence, good luck, you stud, you
2007-03-15 06:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are meeting the wrong people.. you need a woman not a girl... there is a difference! Women don't play games; girls do...
2007-03-15 07:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋