I thought things were goin so well with me and my almost girlfriend who isn't quite mine (but i wish she was) and now I've found she still misses her ex-boyfriend. I'm know she really cared for him, and I don't expect her to just stop thinking about him altogether, since shes not even properly my girlfriend, but it's just I do so much for her, I'd do anything for her, and now I just feel like its not enough, like I'm not enough for her.
I don't know what to do, I didn't even find out from her...
Please help me out ppl.
2007-03-07 06:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by SecondhandTink. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way people
she's bi and so am I.
And she broke up wiv him in december, jus so u all know, and we're sooooo close and she seems to love me some how, and I luv her very much.
2007-03-07 06:38:38 · update #1
It's true- you're not enough for her and what you do isn't enough. Stop. Find someone who appreciates you for you.
2007-03-07 06:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is hetero and will never see herself as a girlfriend to another girl. Of course she wanted a shoulder to cry upon and a friend to talk with after the breakup.
Be content to be her friend and confidant and do not feel like you must "squire" her.
In time she will find another...guy most likely.
There was a boss in another question who bought gifts for a co-worker he fancies as a girlfriend...she is not attracted to him at all and she sees it as problematic.
Friendship should never be "problematic".
2007-03-07 14:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bill C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let her know how you feel. That's the bottom line. You have to put your heart and feelings on the line for the one that you love. She's not a mind reader. If she doesn't want you for you then it's her lose and you'll be someone else's gain. Good luck to you.
2007-03-07 14:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, you have this girl whom you want to go out with, but she still has feelings for her ex. the first thing i would think about is, how long ago did she break up with her bf?? then if it was just recently, give her a little more time, but not too much. and if the break up was a long time ago, i would confront her with your feelings
2007-03-07 14:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by u_no_u_want_me_boyzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a good friend and be there to support her we do not do things to get things back. She does not even think as deeply as you I'm sure she is just upset with ex
2007-03-07 14:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. Sounds like you're barking up the wrong tree.
2007-03-07 14:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and support her, sometimes a long lasting relationship comes from a friendship!! Good luck and don't push too hard........Hope this is helpful
2007-03-07 14:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Play it cool for a while, keep your distance, and see what happens. She'll let you know if she misses you, take it from there if so.
2007-03-07 14:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay well clear and find somebody else!
2007-03-07 14:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your avatar is a girl or are u a lesbian
2007-03-07 14:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by punk101 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋