About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend (of 4 months) tells me that she cheated on me!!! Everything was awesome until then!!! The next day we have a heated argument, and later she tells me that she is crazy with out me and still has fellings for me.
At this point it should b clear to her that she needs to make it up to me right? And she should know she needs to gain all my trust back!! And b more compassionate so that I know she still has feelings and that I am the one!!
Is that too much to believe?
Well the past few days it is clear to me that she is avoiding me. And my feelings for her are clearly not returned.
I approach her and she says that she has days where she believes she loves me and then other days where she believes she doesnt (and even told me that she might hav feelings for this other guy).
She says she needs space and says we can still go out but she needs alot of space to gather thoughts...
What should I do? Break-up? If so what points shud I bring up?
2007-03-07 05:46:58 · 15 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't break up yet. Find a broad, cheat on your current gf with her, and do the exact same to her. Then tell her "it's a ***** ain't it?" and THEN break up with her.
2007-03-07 05:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater..... shes not worth it.. why should u live ur life wondering what the hell shes doing every second of the day when there are wonderful girls out there that u deserve...... u can do better. break up with her....noone should go through that pain. trust me if u dont break it up now ull regrett it much later. uve only been with her for 4 months thats nothing!!! and she already cheated? imagine if u go out with her for a yr or more?! shell definately cheat again...even if she says she wont.
2007-03-07 13:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say SKANK? Dude she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Dont walk RUN get yourself a hottie and then show her what your made of. Make her mad by being happy oh that will piss her off!! Show her you dont need her and you can certainly get someone hotter than she is that wont treat you like a piece of s_ _t. Or you could just take it for what its worth treat her like the skank she really is. Use her for a "Bootie Call" dont take her out dont pay for anything just screw the h_ll outta her. Wear protection treat her like crap and she will come crawling to you. Its all about the Game women need a challenge or its just not interesting to them. Choice is yours New women or Bootie Call or hell both?? Good luck man!!!
2007-03-07 14:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the first to break-up with her. She's just stringing you along. Don't give her that satisfaction of having her cake n eat it to. Girls like that, is not worth it. Now, if the shoe was turn, would she be asking the same question as you are? Find someone who would appreciate you and love you for you. Good luck.
2007-03-07 13:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by qasizan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After somebody cheated on u....once u know for sure that they are going to do it again no matter what...yeah they might say they aren't but come on...i think...not to be mean or anything u should break up with her...well actually its up to u...hope u make the best choice....
Good Luck!!
2007-03-07 13:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by J[o]a[N]n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's recap, shall we? She cheats on you, gives you a sobb story on how she loves you, tries to avoid you and now is not sure how she feels about you and you are still not sure what to do? Do yourself a favor and breakup and find yourself a good woman.
2007-03-07 14:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON. It is pretty clear this girl has no idea what
she wants or where she stands. Trust me when she loses
you completely, she will realize how stupid she was to
cheat on you. ONCE A CHEATER: ALWAYS A CHEATER!!
2007-03-07 13:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you deserve to be treated with respect. Right now she is not ready to be in a committed relationship. You are. Find someone else who wants to be in a committed relationship and let her go. It'll catch up with her one day.
Besides, you won't ever be able to trust her....that makes life miserable.
2007-03-07 13:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the first like and that's enough. She cheated on you? Dump the whore. Dump the *****. Tell her that you can no longer trust her and leave her.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-03-07 13:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by RipfangDragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up, like the sayings go, '' cheater is always a cheater, fool me once,shame on you, fool me twice shame on me,'' dump her, and find someone who will love you and wont cheat on you.
2007-03-07 13:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋