...but we just started dating and we stay in the same state but two different cities like 30 minutes away and it don't sound like much but it is hard with both of our work and school schedules and we really like each other but it's hard for me not seeing him i don't have second throughts but is it normal that i feel this way like i'm missing him alot and i don't feel like he like me even though i know he do. and we are both adults and we do make time for each other on the weekend no matter what.
2007-03-07 05:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've only had long distance relationships.... They work, two people just have to be willing, if you love the person enough... it will work.. i think its better because you dont get sick of the other person...... It is normal to have those feelings, i am the often.
If you could answer my last question much appreciated!
2007-03-07 05:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in one now but he lives states away from me. I am south and he is northeast. He comes to see me once a month and we spend hours on the phone. I do not feel like he does not love me because he shows it all the time. I do miss him alot when we are not together. If you and him are just dating then why are you worried about not seeing him as often. Sounds to me you would like to take the dating stage one step forward and spend some REAL time with him not just a fling on the weekend. I know work schedules are a hassel but if you really wanted to be with that person more then as the old saying goes where there is a will there is a way......figure out what you want from this and then discuss it with him and see if he is on the same page as you....
2007-03-07 13:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very difficult. I know from experience as I had a boyfriend in the military, I went for long stretches of time without seeing him (up to a year) so what you're going through actually sounds alot easier to me! You both just have to make sure you make each other a priority and are willing to do what it takes to make your relationship work.
It's hard and you will miss him alot sometimes but as long as you are both putting effort into it, you should be okay.
2007-03-07 13:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to take some time off, maybe u need some time to think and get everything straight before you stress over not seeing him.
Yea I`ve had 4 long distance relationships.. I lived in new York and he lived in Atlanta.... sure he`d fly in sometime and I wouldnt but we had to break up because of u know.. personal issues
2007-03-07 13:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
30 minutes is not a long distance relationship!! I have had ones where you fly in for the week or weekend!! It will work if you both don't screw around with anyone else!!!
2007-03-07 13:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen your long distance realationship isnt that bad. My boyfriend goes to college 8hrs away and he lives up there too. 30min apart can't be that bad. Just wait it out and if something seems wrong talk with him about it.
2007-03-07 13:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ex- Cheerleader 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋