I've asked my BF of 2 years to stop looking up chics that are mentioned on Maxim radio...it makes me feel very very insecure. He will be listening while he's on the road then texts the girls name to his computer to view later. He knows this makes me uncomfortable. ???
2007-03-07 05:41:27 · 9 answers · asked by rachel d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should have added, he doesn't do this right in front of me. He sends it to his email address that I have the password.
2007-03-07 05:52:18 · update #1
I think if I turned the tables he would feel rather insignificant as well.
2007-03-07 05:54:37 · update #2
Well, it's your chocie, but of what I would do is tell him, if he doesnt stop, you'll dump him and find someone else.
2007-03-07 06:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he's doing is very disrespectful. Looking up girls is one thing but right in front of u is unacceptable. You should tell him that ur not gonna take it anymore. Why should u have to feel uncomfortable just because he's obsessed with Maxim girls.
2007-03-07 13:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't make you feel uncomfortable but since it does, he should respect you and not do it at least not as often. It's all about give and take.....If you ask him to stop, he should stop doing it all the time or as much as he does because it's not really bad, they're girls he will never get so why bother caring? But again since you do, ask him to stop doing it as much as he does and if he doesn't then move on. He should respect you and your wishes.
2007-03-07 13:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm seeing two extremes here. First, I'm seeing an answer along the lines of "let it be," and another urging you to your relationship (of two years) immediately.
My best guess would be that he isn't aware that this bothers you as much as it does. Communication is the key; talk to me about how it makes you feel.
2007-03-07 13:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by confederation_1867 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've asked him to stop doing this around you and he continues then he probably just doesn't care enough about your feelings to want to respect them. Dump him.
2007-03-07 13:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by weirdiscomplimentary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sick and stupid, also immature and a jerk. And he knows that you won't do anything about it that's why he goes on. End this now or make him stop unless he wants you to break up with him!
2007-03-07 13:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no respect for you. If he does this in front of you.
What does he do behind your back? Is he really worth
being with? Don't waste your time, move on...
2007-03-07 13:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him do anything, you can only change you. Learn to laugh about it. If he has good qualities, appreciate those and try not to be so insecure.
2007-03-07 13:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-03-07 13:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋