I Just got my boyfriend on Saturday this weekend. He's been a friend of my for a couple months now. On myspace i left him a kewl picture messege with me having i love u Aj on my neck. Then i scroll down on his comments to see a half naked girl from texas wrote him a comment, saying I love you aj your fantastic and some other stuff. Even though shes from texas and the photo shop eachothers pictures.i thought this was inapropriate! Then i go into her profile and he wrote her a comment saying Whitney {the girl} was a hottie. i don't think he should be saying other girls are hotties. What do you think? I mean she is from texas which is really far away from where we live..... i was so mad i deleted my comment... help!
2007-03-07 05:29:22 · 19 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Inappropriate? ( probably) a big deal? (no) It's flirting and flirting is really not a big deal. I understand why you would be upset ,but don't blow things out of proportion.
Just tell him that kind of thing upsets you and see if he makes an effort to be more considerate.
2007-03-07 05:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is talking like that to other girls then it sounds like he isn't that into you. Myspace like someone mentioned isn't a dating site. Try a dating site. I recommend mate1.com. It is free to women but guys have to pay. I met my man on there. Been together for about 10 months now.
If you REALLY want to be with this guy then I suggest sitting him and and talking honestly about your relationship and how you don't like what he is doing on the computer. See if he is willing to stop that kind of talking to girls. Its fine to talk as friends but not the way he is talking.
Good luck.
2007-03-07 13:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they've been friends for a while. I still call my friends hotties when appropriate even if they or I are in relationships (especially this one who looks like she could be my sister, even though I never had one -- I always make sure to tell her she's sexy because she looks like ME). And I'm the kind of guy who doesn't even like to LOOK at strange women when I'm in a relationship!
If you just started going out on Saturday, he's probably not willing to commit all his feelings to you. That would be very unwise and would probably get him hurt.
2007-03-07 14:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Skye.
The problem is that you don't know the circumstances surrounding why this girl is posting random stuff on his myspace. Talk to him about it; tell him how you feel; and react accordingly. You may find that you overreacted after all. It's always better to know; right?
2007-03-07 13:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by confederation_1867 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all men flirt. And all men look at porn. And all guys talk about other girls behind their girl's back. It has been happening from the dawn of time. I wouldn't concern myself with it. He obviously loves you. And I'm sure he wouldn't really be serious about a woman who posts horrible pics on the net for all to see...myself included.
2007-03-07 13:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months friend
and 4 days boyfriend
looks like you dont know him at all, so forgive him, and try to know him more, to see if he was just playing, or if he really has no respect for a relationship
2007-03-07 13:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so im answering your question, if youve only been together since saturday its not that much of a commited relationship. if you were together for a few months and he did this then ya it would be inaproprite. Give him a chance but remember all men are dogs and given the chance they are ALL cheaters.
2007-03-07 13:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well didnt you say that you just got with you boyfriend last weekend? If so dont you think that maybe they exchanged comments at a earlier time? I think this is probably the problem, but maybe not....?
2007-03-07 20:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-03-07 13:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would ask dave to talk to him then play some video cames with him and then jim could go play poker with the chick from texas....
but seriously if he is cheating on you then he isnt worth the effort, if u are dating he shouldnt be flirting with others, talk to him about tell him that you dont like it, if he carrys on then finish it
2007-03-07 13:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋