What do you think...is it normal to be 21 and still without a girl?
Probably I need to turn gay? I don't want to wait anymore
2007-03-07 05:25:46 · 41 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hurry up!!
2007-03-07 05:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanpandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you are even questioning the fact that you should turn gay...DUDE..THEN YOU ARE GAY!!! What is wrong with being a lone for a while without a mate? There is nothing wrong with that.It gives you time to get your life organized and situated so when the right person comes along, you will be resourceful. NOT BROKE!! There is nothing worse than a grown broke man!If your thinking about MEN. Which most men don't think of turning gay, if they don't find a chick..then I'm sorry..your in the closet and maybe its time you stepped out and start hitting those gay clubs!!! Whatever floats your boat bro!!
2007-03-07 05:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you 'turn' gay? Not having a girlfriend doesn't automatically make you gay. My brother is 24 & has had lots of girl 'friends', but no girlfriends & he's not gay. He's liked plenty of girls, but they kind of look at him like a brother. My husband said he was the same way, although he was 19 w/his 1st. Just give it time. You're still young & there's not a law that says you have to have a girl by a certain age. I tell my brother to make a list of qualities he's looking for in someone & don't settle for anything less.You don't want to jump into a relationship just to 'have sex', because it won't be as fulfilling as waiting for that right person to come along. My husband did that his first time & he felt guilty about it. I'll bet that when you do catch her eye, she'll be a keeper for life.
2007-03-07 05:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by mom-of-4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't turn gay. It's not a lightswitch. Sexuality is a part of you that can't be conciously changed. Being 21 without a girl does not mean you are gay. No one can know for sure except you. Get out there. Meet girls. That's much easier said than done but if you're honest to yourself and to them, women will see that you'll be surprised what can happen. Have some confidence in yourself.
2007-03-07 05:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by This guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One cannot TURN gay. You're basically born that way, I have done research online that gives me facts on that and I have a stepbrother who's gay. You can be 50 and be without a girl and it's normal =) The bad news is, you may have to wait, and if you become a "player" then women will not want to be with you whatsoever.
2007-03-07 05:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ay, Ay, Ay... I'm not so sure you can just "turn" gay on a dime. Neurologically, 5-10% of the gay community was "biologically designed" this way, the remainder have made it a life choice primarily (based on nature and nurture); but, to go from straight hetero to gay because you can't get a girl, talk about drastic and possibly even more disappointing (imagine feeling a penis in your mouth or up your butt) if you're not really into it but do it only because you're frustrated. This is akin to gay folks being told to "just go straight."
2007-03-07 05:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to be 21 and "still without a girl." But go ahead and "turn gay" if you're interested in guys. Listen to yourself and what your body wants. Do you want guys? Then date guys. Do you really want girls and you're just looking for a ******* from whoever will give it to you? Then have a little fun --but don't lead a guy on and tell him you're gay when really you're just desperate.
2007-03-07 05:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by weirdiscomplimentary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you need to be gay because you dont have a girl
why not be patient and wait until you find someone or do what you think is best for you - do you want to be gay?
2007-03-07 05:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turning gay would probably be the dumbest thing you could possibly do- you don't just decide your sexual orientation- your attracted to whatever you like. And don't feel like you have to rush to being with a girl- it will be a mistake if you sleep with just anyone, try to make it someone special! Your time will come...I've seen the most unattractive people find their soul mate.
2007-03-07 05:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others, you can't turn gay. And you need to think about what you are saying..... Being gay is something you are born with, and it is not an easy life. Be patient and continue to work on yourself. Good things will happen for you.
2007-03-07 05:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by PamM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal to be 21 and not have a girl. What is the reason you want a girl? Is it because you think she will fill some kind of void in your heart? If so, you are wrong.
Homosexuality is a sin and an abomination to God.
2007-03-07 05:30:25 · answer #11 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋