when you have a problem and you are looking for advice, the last thing you need is someone telling you have been stupid and saying "why did you not do this or do that".
especially pregnancy. it is a scary thing for everyone, and birth control does not always work.
everyone makes mistakes, small and big and not all pregnancys are planned and just think if all unplanned pregnancies were dealt with (terminated) alot of people in this world will not have been born. (for the better or worse we will never know)
just think to yourself, was your partner a planned baby, your friends or even your parents.
2007-03-07 05:19:22 · 33 answers · asked by unichick_06 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You can't let people on here bother you......it's not important in your life!!! It's only a bit of fun for most people!
2007-03-07 05:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by prettywoman 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh I so agree!! My first was unplanned, I was 17, my b/f left me, I still lived with my parents... There were a lot of people judging me! If he hadn't been born, though, my life wouldn't have been full of sunshine every day like it is now, he's my perfect little angel, and I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my second now, under much better conditions!
I hate people on here who mock your questions. I have had a high risk pregnancy this time, and it has been very scary! The last thing I wanted was one answer to my question about having stomach pains and diahorrea, this person's answer was "Your baby is dying inside you".
How terrifying and insensitive is that??!!
:-) Keep smiling though, and ignore the idiots!
2007-03-07 07:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Krissyinthesun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have to say that some questions regarding pregnancy are pretty stupid. Like, am I pregnant? I mean really, take a test. How are we supposed to know? I mean if you want somebody's opinion then fine, that's all your going to get. I understand not all pregnancies are planned.
I've asked a wedding question, and mentioned we were having a baby. People just assumed we were rushing into the wedding, and our pregnancy was not planned. Well, it was planned and we were engaged before I even got pregnant. We hadn't really planned anything for the wedding, but we found a great place to have a reception before the baby was born. It just happened to be 2 weeks before my cousin's, which is what my question was really regarding.
2007-03-07 05:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand what you mean. When you feel worried or unsure, the last thing you need is some crank giving you abuse! I was looking for alternatives to smacking and was told I was a nut and that I'd gone too far by considering it! Don't these people read questions properly? On a site like this though, `every type of person can give their opinion, and you can ignore those who just aren't on your wavelength! Listen to those who give constructive answers and accept the advice that suits you! I wish you the best of luck! x
2007-03-07 06:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by scamp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are a lot of people here are very quick to give advice without having all the information. I've also seen quit a few ill informed answers given. This should not be about judgement. I know I didn't "plan" both my children and I honestly don't know many people who are able to plan it. I'm not sure what your original issue was that you are talking about but always remember when asking questions, you may not always like the answer.
But it is too easy for people here to be critical and judgemental and even nasty at times because they know they will not come face to face with the people they are doing it to.
2007-03-07 05:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by rosey55465 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Amen! People are asking for advice here not judgment! I get tired of the 9000 Am I pregnant questions a day, but I just don't answer them unless I want to. If I don't have any valid advice I dont answer the question. Hind sight is 20/20 and whats done is done.
I was on bc and I got pregnant and I am a single mom.
2007-03-07 05:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know I was an unplanned baby, and 4 of my 5 children have been unexpected gifts and I wouldn't change a single thing about the way my life has panned out.
You are right, contraception doesn't always work, and resulting unexpected pregnancies are terrifying. A little understanding and compassion costs nothing. :-)
2007-03-07 05:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some of (okay - most of) the "am I pregnant?" questions are pretty naive.
These are either people who had sex and didn’t realize that sex is the number 1 cause of pregnancy or women who are so desperate to get pregnant that they’ll read into any ailment or “symptom” wondering if they’re pregnant.
If you had sex and are scared that you’re pregnant now because the condom broke or you didn’t use one, then go get a “morning after pill”
If you think you’re pregnant because you’re having symptoms X Y & Z then I’m sorry, you’re just going to have to wait until your next period and take an HPT or go see your doctor. If you’re trying to get pregnant, you should already be taking your pre-natal vitamins or folic acid.
2007-03-07 05:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by babypocket2005 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree, yes everyone is entitled to an opinion but slagging people off is NOT an opinion,or judging them because of their mistakes, or taking the piss out of someone who made a typo error,
or stupid people giving the thumbs down just for the hell of it, Even though the answer is right with all correct information?
i just laugh at them now seems they have nothing better to do then look and go OH ill just give everyone a thumbs down
go ahead have your fun,if it makes you feel better
but please dont disrespect people for their mistakes,we all make them once in a while
2007-03-07 05:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some people just want to have a go at others who genuinely need help, it's a sort of 'bullying'.
I just ignore them, like you said, everyone makes mistakes.
I've answered questions without really thinking that I could piss someone off, but I DID.
They end up bullying and go on and on.
2007-03-07 09:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by Welshdragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you truly. Try not to let the world upset you --like my Mama use to say--there will be better days. People are so heartless and they think it is being cool, but they have a lot of growing up to do. and remember "what goes around comes back around" so they will have their day someday.LOL The really good thing is one day u will have a son or daughter to take up for u and not need those butt holes to ask anything of.Peace
2007-03-07 05:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by luminous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋