I am one year older than my boyfriend. We have been together for a year now and i have been fine with not going out and spending most of my time with him. I am in my second semester of freshman year in college, and I have yet been to a club, party or anything. I barely have any friends on campus(mind you I live on campus). Now I want to go out but when I explain this to Him he always has this way of making me feel guilty. He tells he doesn't want be haging out with wild girls and dudes. I wonder sometimes does he think that I am a child who needs guidence and is easily influenced. Do you think he'd comply it if it was the other way around.whats going on? I love him but I feel so lost.
Ladies and fellas I need your veiw on this situation!
2007-03-07 05:03:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that he thinks you're a child, its that he is probably insecure and wants to control you. He doesn't want you around those crowds because there's always a possibility you could get too trashed and do something with another dude there. He knows itd never get backto him also. It does make sense that he is insecure, afterall you are in your first year of college, so that would make him still in high school. There's not much you can do about the way he feels, but if he's tryng to control you now, it probably will get alot worse further in the relationship.
2007-03-07 05:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he does not trust you...or is a control freak
you do not need his permission to do anything you want to do
if you know you are not messing him over then he should not have a problem with it...if he is, then I think something is wrong with him as listed above.
be cool...
2007-03-07 13:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes jealous and is afraid that ur gonna have fun without him. can he go with u?
2007-03-07 14:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋