We go back and forth for not talking 2-3 weeks then him or I will text or call, we meet up, sometimes sleep together and then dont talk again for another 3 weeks cuz hes "not sure if im the one- yet he "loves" me"...this has been going on for a YEAR since we broke up (we were together for like 4 months). Today he just sent me this email and im just so annoyed that this keeps happening because the last time that we saw each other I told him to seriously leave me alone. I'm 23 and hes 29 just fyi. Heres the email he sent me!
He said some random personal questions askin about my school and work etc. then he said "Well, I've been thinking about you a lot and wanted you to know it. Maybe we could get together and go out one of these nights weekday - or weekend... whichever." What do I say in response? Obviously I still love him but I am just tired of him playing these games with me? What should I do? What should I think?
2007-03-07 04:48:48 · 11 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are officially a botty call. He doesn't love oyu, he doesn't give a damn about you. You are a piece of *** for him when he feels like it.
Tell the bum to jump off a cliff and block his email. Then go find a real man that will treat you with respect, like you deserve.
2007-03-07 04:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by no1bucsfan26 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in this situation before (I am nearly 22) and yes it was with someone who was several years older than I was, around the same age group as that 29-year-old you are mentioning. I think it is believable that you do love him somehow and that you do care about him- at the same time, though, you have to realize that this man (er, boy?) is not going to change the way he feels about you, he doesn't respect you, either that or he thinks you condone this sexual relationship he wants with you simply because you still go out with him (at least in the past). It can be very difficult but you need to show that guy that you are better and smarter than he thinks you are- just say "no" and keep on resisting him. Who knows, he may even like you more because of it- but hell, just run away from him!
2007-03-07 12:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like hes playing games. Pretty strait forward. He said what he meant. He wants to hang out with you one of the nights. He didnt say anything else. I tell girls that all the time. Lets hang out sometime this week. Just whenever is cool. lol..not saying he doesnt like you or respect you, He just likes the connection he has with you and enjoys being with you even if he knows it will not work out in the end. So go handle it and enjoy being with him. Advice from a man. Women dont have a clue what were really thinking....
2007-03-09 03:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm NOT an adult but teenagers have more serious problem than that and some can give better advice but anyway i don't think you shouldn't go because he's playing too many games and if you don't go maybe he'll think twice and change if not you'll have to move on .
remember everything happen for a reason !
2007-03-07 12:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Single 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't love him. You care about him. That's totally different. But he is playing games with you. At 29, he should have grown out of that. Tell him that you're busy, and that if you want to hang out with him, you'll let him know. That way if you do want to hang out with him then you can call him, but it stops the incessant calling.
2007-03-07 12:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should say "i love you but i am tired of these games. if you are serious about this, then let's do this, let's be together. if you are not serious about it, then we need to be done and move on." so if he says he's serious about it, then you go see him, don't sleep with him (not until he's clearly being serious, i would say at least a month), and if he starts acting like he's not sure again, then it is OVER.
2007-03-07 12:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by kittycat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just after sex.
he obviously likes you if he keeps coming back for more but why not bin him and get a guy thatl be with you when YOU want and not the other way around.
tell this guy your busy and your bored with the situation with him, move on and move up x
2007-03-07 12:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Robocop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love him. He treats you like a "booty call" (pardon the vernacular). He's using your feelings for him for his own sexual fulfillment. He sent that e-mail because he is horny and wants to have sex with you... again.
I know this may sound trite, but: JUST SAY NO!
2007-03-07 12:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you along because you are 'there for him' when he needs female company. If he was serious about you he'd stop the games. Get rid of him......he's using you.
2007-03-07 12:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you like a condom on Prom night.
2007-03-07 12:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋