OKAY....isss that IT???????What next WIZARDS?

Question

i m in college.And i m not attractive......so no girls...at least i think so?


problem is when they hear about me frm a third person,see my name on the achievers list...sports,academics,computers,project....they r into me. Then BOOM..they see me n i m doomed.


This is specifically to girls....whts the matter ????
Is it looks all u care??


u cn take this into account tht i talk really well,n there is no problem whatsoever in my mannerissms.


Analyse my situation.Mayb i need a personality makeover....suggest..????

Answer 1

You need a little more confidence. Change a couple of things in your lifestyle so you can feel better about yourself. If there are things you don't like about your appearance, figure out what they are before you try to change anything!

Or alternately (though you might not like this idea), go out with a girl that's not especially good-looking herself. Then you'll both be in the same boat, and grateful for what you have.

Good luck! xxx

Answer 2

You need to take an objective look at yourself - what could possibly be turning all these girls off? Looks are NOT all that matter - even ugly guys can get dates if they know how to treat a woman. You say you 'talk really well and there is no problem in your mannerisms' - how's your hygiene? It's difficult for people to bring up, but if you have sloppy clothes, B.O., or nasty hair or beard - HUGE TURNOFF!

Rather than a personality makeover, start with a personal makeover - new haircut, facial, new outfits that complement your body type and coloring - Fab 5 yourself and see what happens.

Answer 3

Looks are not everything, however, no matter what there has to be some type of attraction there. If you found a girl unattractive you probably wouldn't be interested in her either. Once they meet you, then you become either more attractive or less in their eyes based on your personality. I have no idea what you look like so I can't help you out there. But, if you have any friends with a girlfriend maybe they could help you out with that? Most girls would be willing to help a guy out who is friends with their b/f. Talk to them, they are around you, should be able to give you some tips. There is NO ONE on this planet that is that bad that they won't find someone. It just takes time.

Answer 4

No, women are not JUST into looks. However, physical appearance IS a first impression. You don't have to be overly attractive to look great. Try a makeover, such as new, trendy clothes or a fashionable haircut. Good hygiene is also very important. Clean hair, nails, and shoes are important ! Take care of yourself. And always, always exude confidence. Smile. A smile makes anyone look 100% better ! If you feel better about yourself, it will shine through to women. A confident man is a sexy man. Good luck !

Answer 5

Firstly use spell checker and drop the text talk as you contradict yourself when you say you talk really well and are good with computers!

Secondly Dress to impress

Thirdly looks can be an important first impression. I suggest in your case you stop trying so hard to overly impress and let girls get to know you better, as this will ultimately end with some one falling in love with your brain and personality

Lastly Accept your not going to be with a super model unless you work really hard start your own business earn a fortune and find some really shallow chick

Answer 6

Ok if you were a girl would you date you? Look in the mirror what impression are you giving? Is it just looks or is it attitude that turns them away? I have dated some guys that are not very good looking initially.. but after I got to know them they became more and more attractive.

Answer 7

It sounds like you have no confidence in yourself and it shows through to other people. Do you like the way you look? If not, can it be changed? Just do me a favor and don't down yourself like that. You are who you are. Someday, somwhere unexpected, someone is going to love you for just being you. Don't change for anyone but yourself. Hang in there buddy.

Answer 8

I'm sorry, how old are you??

If you think that you are not attractive then yes, you are doomed.

I think virtually anyone that carries them-self well, has a smile on their face and is easy, relaxed and open becomes an attractive person. Give it a try.

Answer 9

Just a question...if you've achieved so much academically and the girls like that, how come you can't type like a grownup?

That's a HUGE turn off to me, at least, when I get emails or notes or letters written like that. :)

Answer 10

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