I'm 26 and very rarely approached by men. I have been told that I'm cute and dress well. I am intelligent and have a sense of humor. Also a big sports fan. Usually when I'm out with friends I am having a good time so its not like I am acting like a b****. What is going on?
2007-03-07 04:19:08 · 17 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guys where you are probably only like hitting on girls that they think they can "play", or are easy. Odds are, you're either carrying yourself like a respectable woman, or they are just too intimidated to hit on you. In most circumstances, it's probably for the better.
2007-03-07 04:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like some of the other people answered, guys may be intimidated by you. As a guy, I think woman are way more likely than a guy to embarras you for approaching them, so we are afraid that we are not just going to hear you say " no " but you may add a " what a loser". Allow me to chronicle the social life of a friend of mine, he was chubby ( we called him fat skip ) he had a wierd short hair cut, a gruff voice and was not the slightest bit stylish but he ALWAYS met and dated beautiful girls. We all ask him how he was so lucky and he said that he went out to have a good time and he really didn't care if he met anyone ( genuinely didn't care, so he wasn't just pretending to be cool like most of us do ) this way he was able to truly be himself and I belieive the subconscious signals we send out speak louder than the way we look or all that other face value stuff.You sound like most guys perfect girl you just have to realize it, but then you will have to be careful to pick the right guy out of all the ones that will be approaching you,try not to be fooled by the players ( translated means losers ) My best Jen, good luck.
2007-03-07 12:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful women are often seen as unapproachable because they are intimidating to men. Men are afraid of rejection. They also don't like to approach a woman who is in a group of other girls because if you DO reject him, he will not only be embarrassed in front of you, but in front of all of your friends too. Try approaching him instead. Walk over and ask him a sports-related question, or ask him for help with something. Men love to feel like they are being helpful to a "damsel in distress". Trust me. It will work. If you are shy and don't want to be the one to initiate a conversation, slip him your phone number or try online dating. Good luck !
2007-03-07 12:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question to you is do you have a picture you can send me? I would find what you mentioned above as turn-on's. Maybe men think you are taken, especially if you are out with a group of guys doing guy things. If you want to talk about this you can send me an e-mail or just IM me at the address below.
2007-03-07 12:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out a little more... When you do go out make sure go out with girl friends.. guys love to approach group of girls....Change up your style a little bit...And i always have confidence in your self....(like you're the best thing in place or situation might find your self in)
2007-03-07 12:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, maybe you need to go out alone sometimes, maybe a sports bar, you will find plenty of men there, looking for a pretty girl that loves sports! just pick one and ask or talk about the game, talk to them all, bet in no time you will find your man, good luck and GOD BLESS.
2007-03-07 12:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by reann4239 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to the guys. don't act stuck up and that your better than everyone else. wear a tshirt and jeans instead of designer clothes once in a while. watch the game with the guys and get just as rowdy as they are if not louder. I would love it if a girl watched a braves game with me and raised hell with me when the umpire makes a shitty call. be yourself but try to fit in better and talk to the guys.
2007-03-07 12:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe men are intimidated by your good looks and confident attitude. Other then that you seem like a great package. Even your avatar looks hot! Ha Ha
2007-03-07 12:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to have the guy approach you? Smile at the one who you would like to get to know. If he smiles back, say something.
2007-03-07 12:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just intimidating to men. You should approach them instead....why wait around?
2007-03-07 12:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋