i am a 15 year old girl any help?

Question

ok i am in a very weird spot in life i am the middle girl i get yelled at for everything sometimes for walking in a room i dont know what to think of my mom she is the yelling type my step dad is a mager hard a** and so stricked i cant even go over to my friends house my sister tells on me for everything even things she does my older sister is almost never around same with my bro i have never met my real dad and i have tried to talk to my mom and she yelled at me she told me that he doesnt love me her doesnt even care about me but i feel like i am worthless and i just want so help i want to run away but i dont know were to go my older sister is always told by my mom that she needs to move in and she would never keep her from her dad because that is wrong but what does she think is happening with me it isnt fare sometimes i think that my sisters are favored more than i am what do i do

Answer 1

I would do a couple of things if I were you.

I wouldn't run away because that is not going to solve your problems.

It sounds like you're wrestling with who your dad is and trying to get out of the family strife that you are in.

Talk to your older sister to see if she knows who your dad is. If he is not involved in the family then he MAY not be interested in the family. But you won't know until you try. Afterall, this is YOUR relationship with your dad and not your sister's relationship with him or your mom's relationship with him.

I would ask your mom why she yells at you and to get her to be clear why she is yelling at you. Since you're 15, claim what is yours and yours is - YOUR FEELINGS. Explain to your mom how you feel when you get yelled at all the time. Sometimes people need a reality check and don't realize they are yelling or how they are treating people.

Do you and your sister have the same dad? Is there someone you can talk to about your feelings that could then talk to your mom if you're not up to talking to your mom?

Communication is the most important thing in life. No one will know how you feel if you keep things bottled in or don't tell anyone around you. Try to talk to your mom, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain from it.

Don't let people dictate your sense of worth. You are worthy and not worthless. Get off your knees and stand up for yourself and defend who you are because in the end, no one knows you better or will love you better than yourself.

Answer 2

i'm in almost the exact situation you are. i'm 15 middle child of three girls. stepdads an a** and my moms taking after him. i only see my dad like twice a year. my mom absolutily hates my dad because he's an alcoholic. thats why i never get to see him.
i get crap from my mom too. i've thought about running away but i'd have nowhere to go. my step dad acually thinks he is really my dad! its gotten to the point where just everything he does just bugs me so much. its like nails on a chalkboard! anyway i've thought about running away but than i was like i would nowhere to go, so i just decided to wait till im 18 and then i'm getting the hell out of here. so you could do that, and i know its a long wait but it WILL be worth it once your out of there! i just try to avoid my family as much as i possibly can.
i hope i have helped you decide what to do even if our situations are a little different. good luck!

Answer 3

look is like this am nt in the position bt i havebn a lot of friends that i like that an my gurls mom those the sam ething to her all i kould tell u is to kik bk till ur 18 i know is hard to be thier kause all they do is scream at u an ****. bt look wen ur mom yells at u dnt anserw bt dnt tell her anything an she is just gona shut up an go away kasue she dnt got anything else to say kause u dnt giver her no reasons... an dnt run away kause that just gona give u more problems all u kan do is wait till ur 18 an shange ur ways kause am pretty sure that wen they tell u some thing u dnt like u go off on them huh... an about ur dad look she kant keep u from seein him all ur life she is gona have to tell u wo he is sooner or later bt look all u kould do right now is try to take all the **** u living right now just wait till ur 18 an u are gona b able to do alot of things u kant do rite now wen u 18 u kould look for ur dad ur self u dnt need ur mom for that u just have to kik bak an b calm am serious

Answer 4

You do have a serious problem. When things go bad I found that my kids came up with a good idea. They wrote me a letter that explains how they feel. For us it worked. I have anger issues and that is how they were able to get around them. Good Luck! Remember u can't run away from your problems.

Answer 5

sounds like u r feeling neglected u need to find someone to talk to about how u feel someone who will listen to u an actually care about how u feel. (im 15 myself and have the same prob talkin to someone dusnt make everything beter but it does help)

Answer 6

i dont know what to say but just what ever you do DONT RUN AWAY! but i hope your situation gets better and i wish the best for you:-)