should i tell my boyfriend i am a virgin and i am ready to lose it, but would he like me more if i was a non virgin
2007-03-07 04:09:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He will like the fact that you are a virgin, but are you sure you want to give it up?
2007-03-07 04:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know about other guys but I like a girl who is still a virgin. I respect that. Tell him and tell him you might be ready to lose it, in kind of a kinky way. Don't do it unless your sure its with the right guy and its the right time, you can never take it back.
2007-03-07 04:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by taco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys like virgins because will lets be blount they are tight and havent been with anyone else so they know they cant be compared. But you might really want to think about it before you go and lose it. Just think about how many years youve waited...make sure he is worth it ,and that you are ready to take on all the responsibility that sex holds.
2007-03-07 04:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him. Why wouldn't he like you because of your virginity? If he's a good guy he'll be honored that you're giving it up to him & he'll be sensitive and careful with you.
PLEASE USE SOME KIND OF BIRTH CONTROL. I don't want to see you back on here in 6 weeks asking if your nausea symptoms mean that you're pregnant.
Be honest with him, it'll enrich your sex life & your relationship.
2007-03-07 04:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Winette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're concerned about being completely honest with your bf, then I suspect that:
a) you may be too young to lose your virginity or
b) he's not the right guy to break your cherry.
Don't trivialize it as it's something you'll remember for the rest of your life. Your first time should be with someone who'll understand the importance of what's happening, someone who deserves it and ideally, someone who you really love and who really loves you.
2007-03-07 04:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to sit down and talk with him. My wife was 23 and a virgin when we married. It all depends on what is important to you first.
2007-03-07 04:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin and tell him, he will want to have sex even more since it is a mark of achievement to de-flower a virgin. I'd not tell him and make sure he wants you for being you.
2007-03-07 04:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shredded Cottage Cheese 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would tell him, it should make no difference whether or not you are a virgin.
2007-03-07 04:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! tell him you are! dont tell him youre ready to 'lose' it. its yours, precious, to give,to share with someone special on a special night..such as your wedding night. if you lose it before your wedding.. will you trust him with it? will he cherish you for it forever? virginity is highly prized.
youve got something nearly every man on the plant wants and every women who isnt would like to get back..lol take care of it!
peace
2007-03-07 04:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him you are a virgin and are you really ready to loose it? make sure that he is special and that you really know him before you have sex with him. also, if you are not his first i think you should have him see a doctor and have him tested for any STD's...
2007-03-07 04:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋