2007-03-07 03:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As I've matured, I've realized that a few important things about ladies. A hot girl can be found just about anywhere and there are many of them, but an interesting girl who you can connect with is an extremely rare find. If I had realized this a long time ago, I would've never even bothered trying to impress the attractive girls. Personally, I would like a girlfriend who is pretty, nice, caring, out-going, funny, but most importantly, someone who shares common ground with me.
2007-03-07 04:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by F1reflyfan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can say honestly that I have had some indecent thoughts but I have really defined what I, as a 15 year old, almost 16 year old look for in a girlfriend. Most importantly, she has to have moral values. I will not live in the same house with a swearing, lying, cheating woman in the future. I look for a girl who is shy like I am sometimes. A girl who has some creativity and smarts. Not a ditz. A girl who speaks nicely to me. A girl who doesn't care that I do not like to worship technological inventions like ipods and cable and others. I am lookign for a girl who has some common sense. A girl who is funny and likes me for who I am. I am not a "gangsta" as some put it. I am a deep souled person. Not even my closest family members can figure out my way of life. My parents question my poetic and soft atitude towards nature and life and the good things about what our Lord has given us. I do not use swear words in public and I try to restrain myself from using them at home. I am a virgin, unlike 80% of the kids my age in my school. I have never drunken alcohol, smoked or dealed or consumed drugs. I have stayed on the path of straight and narrow. I have enjoyed but yet have struggled to get through life but I know that I will find a girlfriend one day. The Lord spoke to me recently. I was crying in my bedroom after seeing a teen love story on tv. It reminded me of the few times I have tried to make friends with others and they turn their back and shun me or they embarass me infront of everyone I know. I am in grade 10. I haven't had a single true friend in my life but One day, the Lord said to me as I sat on my bed, one day, you will find someone. The right one for you. I look for a girl with dedication to herself and to me. The chances are slimming down that I will find a girlfriend, knowing the times are changing and becoming a living hell but maybe a miracle will happen. Maybe I will find the girl who gives you a helping hand when you are in need of help. The kind of girl that dries your tears when you cry. Someone who loves ME...not anything I possess. A girl who has never been with another boy (sexually) and a girl who does not give into temptation because society said so. Until that day, I remain alone, staring into the sky on a cold winter's night asking myself..."When will I find the right one for me?"
2007-03-07 12:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Adam Chambers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to have a great personality. we have to have things in common and get along good. looks aren't everything but she needs to be attractive to me. There has to be chemistry between us and we have to be a lot alike. I don't look for a girl who is hot and will put out. not all guys are dogs, I like a good relationship for a while before we go into sex because I wanna make sure I wouldn't mind having a kid with her because accidents do happen.
2007-03-07 12:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all my guys said they liked me cus i always supported them and i was kind and nice and funny and fun to be around and i an unpredictable
like sometimes when i know he is having a bad day i will go and put something in his car or if its a big problem and i ask if anything is wrong and he says i dont want to talk about it i will go to a calm place and just talk about life and not bother him until he is ready to talk and trust me guys will always want to open up if you make them feel comfy
oh also keep things fresh go do new things and sometimes i love to play hide and go seek or start to play fight or something fun like that keeps them on there toes and always wanting more
2007-03-07 12:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its different for each guy. personally i fell in love with my fiance because she was a great person. then later i noticed her huge boobs, and thick thighs. she always wore baggy clothes because we started dating in the winter. When summer came OH BOY. That s when the shorts and tank tops came out of the closet. But she had me with her personality.
2007-03-07 12:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by UnderTigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember guys r dogs. They want your body and then when it comes time for a real relationship they want that sweet inocent girl.
2007-03-07 12:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welel it depends on what type of guy they are . jerks look on the outside. but if you want someone who is going to care about you. then you are just going to have to be yourself and the right one will come
2007-03-07 12:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~ashley~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind Heart , Good Temper and Wisdom.
2007-03-07 12:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bright 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to know what the boy likes. Is he a jock, smart bot or what? You have to know that first and than you will know what he looks for.
2007-03-07 12:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who can make me laugh, a healthy body on the thinner side, spontaneous, some one i can hold a conversation with, all the above are important at least to me.
2007-03-07 12:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by T2K2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋