my br ex gf put me into tears last night because she was saying thathe loved her more then he did me and thathe woulded even touch me cuz i meant have somekind disease which i dontand that he said to her thathe wanted to marry her when hegot backfrom italy she said that she would bring the lettersto meand show me what he to her put everytimei see her she doesnthavethem what should i do believe her
2007-03-07 03:54:03 · 22 answers · asked by Brittany C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore her and move on - htat is the new girlfriends job, to make the nold one jealous and sad. Don't let her, drive her nutas by not giving in to her and why are talking to her anyway?!!
2007-03-07 03:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by questionme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would she know who he loves more. The only person that knows that is your boyfriend. She is his ex for a reason. I think that she is just jealous because he is with you and not her. I don't think you should believe anything that she says. Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about what she is doing to you. If she doesn't stop, I would change your number and keep it unlisted. Make sure that she doesn't get it. I hope this helps, and Good Luck.
2007-03-07 04:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not she is telling the truth is not the issue. Many exes will attempt to cause trouble in their ex's new relationship out of vengeance or immaturity. If it were me, I would not believe her. I would stay confident in my relationship and stand my ground. Do not make contact with her and do not speak with her again. If she causes problems with you and your boyfriend, she will only be getting what she wants. If you must speak to her again for any reason, simply tell her that you will not discuss your boyfriend with her anymore and that your relationship with him is none of her business. Walk away and hold your head high ! Don't let her cause problems or make you feel badly. He's with YOU, right ? Good luck.
2007-03-07 04:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its not her place to tell you anything if he wanted her why not tell you hisself he not there to defend hisself dont let her bring anything to you you dont know her she could be crazy or something tell her to make a copy of the letters and meet you in a public place and give you a set of your own to show him and you should his hand writing and if its true he didnt love you in the first place and move on if thats what you gotta do but dont believe her without talking to him first brush the haters off and keep movin until you find out otherwise ok dont let nobody make you cry over something as simple as that theres alot more guys where he came from hope this helped gurl
2007-03-07 04:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by bluesunshinehome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's lying myself. I would steer clear of her if I could. Next time she tries to talk to you, I would tell her that you and her have nothing to say to each other, because personally I think that was so mean the things she said to you. And I know it is painful to hear that your boyfriend cared more about someone else, makes a woman feel like 2nd choice. No one wants to hear or even think like that.
2007-03-07 04:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe his ex is just jealous that you got him now, but she wont believe it, so she is doing the best she can to break you two up!!!! But do not let it get to you, just say " really, because last I heard, he does not send you anything, especially becuase you wont show me the letters!" Then meybe she will back off and let you have the man!!!! and the next time she does that, dont cry, becuase she now she knows what to say to you when she wants to see you cry!!!! So dont worry, just brush her off your shoulder like she is dust
2007-03-07 04:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by smith_kallissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can be real bitches, especially if they really want something like an ex boyfriend they will say or do anything. I would first stop talking to her, and then casually tell your boyfriend about it and see what he says. She is probably the one who is lying,. but it's good to let your boyfriend in on whats going on cause having a relationship is all about honesty.
2007-03-07 04:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by dreamangel1102002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she had her chance and blew it now shes jelouse and is tryin 2 get at u so that u leave him so she can have another chance its just jelousey say 2 her wen u c her get well soon (jelousey is an illness in a way it can drive u 2 b possesive and intolerable and she needs 2 get beter also it will rub it in her face n give u the upper hand)
2007-03-07 04:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get to you , that's all she wants is to make you cry and to upset you , she get's some kind of pleasure out of it.
Just remind her that she's his EX for a reason , and girl don't show that it bugs you cause like i said it only makes her happy to see you sad..
Be strong , keep your head up =)
2007-03-07 04:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he will say what ever to her to make her ahppy do u beleave he felt this wasy about u did u 2 kiss and stuff. na shes gellous and u need to just let her know the truth whats he say about her if he still talk to her get rid of him cause hes going to cheat on u
2007-03-07 03:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by amymamagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋