my enemy bf told me he dumped her but he didnt and when i found out i left him alone!!! my enemy heard rumours about me and him and asked me about it i denied it and me and her made peace.. now that we are sort of friends i feel bad for lie'ing to her!! should i tell her the truth?? by the way his 19 and she's 14, there parents know each other, they've known each other for 6 years and have been going out for 6 months.. will he stop cheating on her and why is he doing this????
2007-03-07 03:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
illlllll - what is a 19 year old doing with a 14 year old.....
at that age the gap is way too big - you should tell him he could be considered a pedophile...
sick!
2007-03-07 03:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation, especially since it would have been best if you told her right from the start, because now you have to tell her, and shes going to feel like you betrayed her, and sometimes you have to think about whats more important at the moment, and what would be the best way to resolve this, but to answer the question you should tell her, because a guilty conscious is not so good. But now when you tell her, you have to think about another problem that may come up. Her hating you all over again, but hopefully she would be an adult about the situation and just listen to what you have to say and just dump that loser. Because personally if i were her and you told me that i would be happy that you told me, so that i wont have to be walking around dating a looser bf whos a cheater. But she shouldnt be mad at you at all, but hey some people do things like that, because you are not the enemy here, she needs to be handling that drama with her bf and be thanking you for telling her.
2007-03-07 03:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her because "all is fair in love and war". Also, the guy lied to you. Unless you knew he was lying, you shouldn't feel guilty. I suspect you feel guilty because you knew he was lying. Otherwise you wouldn't feel guilty for lying about hooking up with him since you didn't know he was lying. If he is cheating on her with you how can you ask the question "When will he stop cheating on her?" He won't. Why would he? He has a nice situation with the both of you, doesn't he? That being said, a nineteen year old should not be with a fourteen year old. Unless he is living in a town with three women two of whom are his relatives.
2007-03-07 03:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by mouthbreather77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he wont stop cheating on her and guys like fresh young stuff so tell her cause u r young if shes your friend she will forgive you talk about y u did it and tell her it all i did that to my best friend only shes used to date the guy i now have a babay with they were no longer together had not been for 2 years) at the time it all happened she was pissed but got over it quickly as we cryed together and made up
2007-03-07 03:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by amymamagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, she's not your best friend or anything. Just take this as a lesson learned and STAY AWAY from him.... don't make the situation worse because then she will be mad that the rumors are actually true, and that you lied to her. Walk away on this one.
2007-03-07 03:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is 14 and he is 19.. he needs to cheat, he can go to prison if he sleeps with a 14 year old girl..
2007-03-07 03:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, tell him that if u find out that he is cheatin on her u will tell her everything,untill dont tell her, if it was a long tie ago, it doesnt matter
2007-03-07 03:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Wendicita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guys a loser both of you girls should move on
2007-03-07 03:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weirdo
2007-03-07 03:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by jamincoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋