Help!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I need boyfriend help. I am 13 and I know that is a little to young to have a boyfriend but, question: We have been dating for 9 months now and everytime I see him he is like when are we gone have sex I am always like I don't know. i need advice do yall think he just want to have sex? In a way I don't think so because he would't have stuck around 9 months for nothing. Please help cause I don't want to get heart broken at such a young age

Answer 1

a desperate guy will stick around as long as it takes 2 get into a girls pants if he feels he has her wrapped round his finger and that she will eventually give in 2 him

Answer 2

Dear Mz. Pebble: You are a very bright 13 year old. Yes, you are toooooo young to be considering sex with this young man and while he has been seeing you for 9 months you need to tell him that you are too young to experience sex at 13. Sweetie, you will thank all of us for advising you to wait for the right person, the right time and it is not any time in your forseeable future. Wait til you are old enough to know the pros and cons and how to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. Be forward with him and let him kow that you appreciate his interest but you are not ready.

Answer 3

As a general rule you should have sex when YOU are ready to. I think you are a bit young to be having sex at 13. Just have fun with your boyfriend in other ways. I know its hard to refrain from it but I think you will be happier for it in the end.

Answer 4

He has waited 9 months if he loves you he will respect your opinion on waiting to have sex until you are mature enough and are ready for it. Don't rush such a precious thing. You need to be having fun with your friends and not worrying about sex. It will come when its time. If he is making you uncomfortable tell him you need to breakup. At his age..he isn't wanting it because he loves you its because of his hormones! Tell him you have other things to worry about than having sex at such a young age and I don't think either of you are ready for your own child? Condoms and birthcontrol aren't 100% accurate. Please please please wait!

Answer 5

Here's your help. Get out of this relationship. If you continue in it your heart will not be broken... it will be shattered into a million little pieces from which you may not recover.

You don't need someone who is interested in knowing when you are going to have sex. If he asks again, tell him when you both have wedding bands on your fingers and are on your wedding night. His reaction will tell you all you need to know about how serious he is about you.

Answer 6

Hmph slow your row since 1st you are only 13 and getting into an relationship should never be a first priority right now regardless of what friends might say.In simplistic terminology education comes 1st especailly for someone your age

Answer 7

You are right on not wanting to have sex, he's only after one thing, if youy give it to him, he might leave you, wait till your married, what if something happends , like haveing a bay at eary age, or aids and std's , or hiv, please wait till your married ,and when you found the one you love, you will be so much happer, tell him you want to wait , if he cant understand that , then dump him , he's a loser.

Answer 8

wwell what does your heart say.do you want to have sex or not to have sex. it is your choice to or not. you have a long time before you do that so wait until your older and out of school with a great degree and job. trust me. me and my boyfriend talked about this over and over so do what you think is right.