ok first off im 20 fixin to be 21 she is atleast 18 for the past week or so this girl i work with who has a bf who also works at the same place but he works at nights me and her works days
anyways she started working there bout a month ago i started talkin to her alittle when i see bout a week or so ago now everytime she sees me she smiles not the usual type of smile and she works in the cafe area at my job yester day i was gettin some food as soon as she saw me she smiled and when she turned away to get my food and then turned back she smiled again and actually asked me how im doin which is completely unusaul
i know it may sound like she is just bein nice but too me she seems kinda shy so i was wondering could she be shy but tryin to flirt alittle
also how far would a shy female or one who is not shy go with flirting when she has a bf
2007-03-07 03:36:24 · 11 answers · asked by cowboy76360 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok to those of u thinkin im wantin to sleep with her its not like that im not that kind of person im just wondering if she could be flirtin with and i kno usually smiling and stuff like that isnt flirtin but i think she may be shy
she just had me kinda confused thats all and i just wanted someone elses opinion
2007-03-07 18:11:59 · update #1
Well, you cant just assume that since she's smiling at you that she's flirting with you. But also, smiling may be her way of flirting with you if she's shy! Dont make any moves yet, let her do it all so you can be sure & not get your behind kicked for messing with another guy's girlfriend. Good luck!
2007-03-07 03:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets start off with problem #1 and that is that most men take kindness as flirting and im sorry but if she smiles that being nice and if she talks to you she wants to be friends
now if she looks into your eyes for longer than she usually does of she touches your arm or hand alot more and she laughs at all your jokes and when you are talking she kinda leans in closer then she is flirting oh also if she gives you tons of compliments she is flriting
ok problem #2
now if you are thinking "well maybe i can have a relationship with her cus she likes me and not her boyfriend" then stop. if she is flirting and she has a boyfriend then i promise you she has done it before and she will do it agian
now problem #3 why do you want to know how far she will go with flirting you arent thinking about cheating with her are you cus thats sick and wrong
but just so you know every girl is different and yes i do everyonce in a while smile at a cute guy but i dont get there numbers or talk to them cus i am in a relationship and thats a no no
2007-03-07 11:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if i were in your place i would not even care if shes flirting or not because she has a bf and i would say hi and keep it moving people are not playing these days her bf could be a really jealous person and you know what that can lead to or maybe shes not getting that attention she needs but that would be her problem so dont get yourself wrapped up in something that might turn really bad i hope this helped
2007-03-07 11:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by bluesunshinehome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off CPT Jack is a tool. A shy girl will probably wait for some ques from you before she would take it another small step. My advice to you is leave it alone. Any girl that is flirting with you behind her man's back is not worth the trouble.
2007-03-07 11:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by I know EVERYTHING! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just flirt back, and see if she will respond, and maybe she is looking for another guy and keeping the other one as a back up plan, but watch out, most shy girls have a lot of drama behind them
2007-03-07 11:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this girl is young she may be curious and might find you attractive, but I wouldnt know for certain so if it was me I would just let things take their course andif she does actually like you then she'll eventually show you.
2007-03-07 11:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is flirting with you, go for it. Unless you are friends with her boyfriend. If you don't know the dude, It's fair game. In other words, if she really likes you, she'll dump her dude and get with you. A message for her man.........It ain't my fault that your girl likes me more. So no hard feelings.
2007-03-07 11:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Man!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her dude,and if you like her ask her out! If you dont know her bf then its up to her to say yes or no!!
2007-03-07 11:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by ~sweatypie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be flirting she may not but don't make a fool of your self if she is not flirting
2007-03-07 11:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Smurfett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes u
2007-03-07 11:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by -CEMIX- 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋