I'm 26 and very rarely approached by men. I have been told that I'm cute and dress well. I am intelligent and have a sense of humor. Also a big sports fan. Usually when I'm out with friends I am having a good time so its not like I am acting like a b****. What is going on?
2007-03-07 03:29:24 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe guys are intimidated? Guys, I've noticed, tend to shy away from girls who look high-maintenance. You sound like a pretty awesome girl so maybe they're just scared.
But don't always wait for the guy to start things off. If you see someone you find interesting, go and talk to him!
I read somewhere that the majority of lasting relationships start with the guy making the first move (and in my 22 years of experience this has been true so far) so approach him, talk with him, but let him ask you out. You just have to let him know you're there, interested, and approachable. If he knows you're a cool chick, not a scary perfect diva, he'll be more comfy asking you out.
2007-03-07 03:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It also has a lot to do with what is considered acceptable now. No one likes being called a weirdo or purvert. Try setting up some more interactive situations were they see that yes your cute but there's more, you might be a lot cuter than you realize and that can be a real high hurdle for them. And give the guy that's not so good looking a chance too. hang in there this happens to everyone. When your on the hunt there's nothing to hunt and when your involved, there begging for you like your the last piece of pie
2007-03-07 11:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by frosty62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the qualities you have men might get the impression that you are spoken for. Have you ever thought of approaching men? Some like it and some don't, but for those who do, they will meet someone who has magnetic qualities.
2007-03-07 11:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what funny every thing they say about you... which is true.. and you are right you not trying to be a b i t c h about it at all... you just being you... you want them to know that who you are not being B i t c h woman... nope... you are cool and You know funny my wife not big fan of sports anything.. you first person for a woman to say that. If a man found you he very lucky to have you... I hope that person love you for who you are not the out look of your body... or sex or anything... but share with you and love you and want to have a family that guy is trusted not cheating on you all that..
Who care about what they say about you and don't let it bother you... they way you say who you are you being you.. that how I love about my wife she being her... everyone thinks she is the b i t c h but she not....
I hope this helps you...
2007-03-07 11:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately men are very beauty oriented. Sounds like you're a great gal but haven't met the right guy.
2007-03-07 11:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl nothing is the matter with you it's this that most men these days are gay or either married so keep doing what your doing and you will find a man matter a fact that man will find you
2007-03-07 11:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I was the same way and one day I said F**k it and stoped looking and then I found the most wounderful man I could have ever imagined walked right into my life and here we are married and a little one on the way so just stop looking and then they will come to you!!!
hope i helped
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2007-03-07 11:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are intimidated by women like you. you have looks and a head on your shoulders and its hard for there brains to proscess the best of both worlds.
a gurl like u needs a man who can keep up not one that it to scared to approch you....keep looking price chaming is out there somewhere.
2007-03-07 11:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by autumn_aka_slick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the men in your area are just gay.
Dont give up, someone will ask ya out before ya know it.
2007-03-07 11:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to approach a man. Don't wait for them to approach you
2007-03-07 11:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by christina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋