My mum and dad are divorced and we are living with our mum.The other week my sister was talking with my dad on the phone and she hung up on him because he had arranged something without telling her,it wasnt rude or anything she wanted to be imformed before he did,she is 10.She is now saying she wont see or talk to him again!Me and my dad have the same birthday and it is on friday and she says she wont sign his card.My dad also hasnt rung since then and i dont know if he will ring on on our birthday,if he dosent,what should i do? and please tell me what to do with my sister...please.thanks
2007-03-07 03:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your sister is 10? Don't worry, she'll get over it. Relationships are rollar coasters, this sort of thing just happens. I would suggest sitting down and talking to her and being a supportive sister, your father can handle his relationship with her. It isn't your job to be the peace maker and nor should you try to make it so, doing that might just make you miserable, instead just be supportive and perhaps set your own example.
2007-03-07 03:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by und3r53v3n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself under undue stress ! Your dad loves the both of you ! He'll call on Friday, if he doesn't you call him ! You sound like a sensitive girl, and divorces are sometimes hard to deal with. Your sister will come around ! She is only 10 ! And I'm sure your dad knows that ! Don't worry, no harm done !
Just try to explain to your sister that it was a misunderstanding,
and your dad realizes that now. He must feel badly after she hung up on him. Tell her to sign the card to make your dad feel better.
Good Luck !
2007-03-07 11:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your sister are a result of the Love between Your parents. Now that your parents are not together, there may be a feeling that LOVE IS LOST. Your Sister is angry at having the feeling of Lost love and sides with Mom as a defence. Please understand that Love cannot be lost. The Love that created you is ever present and is part of you and your sister. Please understand that you and your sister cannot be "UN-LOVED" I will tell you what to do... LOVE your sister, tell her that you love her and that her Dad and Mom love her. Divine Love is YOU ! and through you, Love and Light will prevail.
2007-03-07 11:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by jordan_smith@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call your father up and wish him a happy birthday.
You kids are young, stay in touch with your father if you had a
bond with him before. Maybe he will get you on weekends.
Dont be rude and respect your father, he is half responsible
for you both if you do have a bond with him.
2007-03-07 11:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your sister needs a good slap she is 10 and she is not the adult. Sign her name to the card and call your father and talk to him
2007-03-07 11:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt really anything that you CAN do. why dont you try to talk to him and tell him what you would like him to do. maybe he'll call and apologize to your sister..get her to feeling a little better
2007-03-07 11:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia Reyna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋