Just looking for your opinions here,i was told this guy might ask me out last night,i only know him a little and see him at his work and he`ll be jokey and have a laugh anyway he came over to us last night and i couldn`t even look at him and felt about 15 with a crush!!he tried to make small talk and my friend answered while i read a txt on my phone,he then hesitated and walked away,do you think he would have asked if i hadn`t been so bloody silly?and do you think he`ll risk it again??
2007-03-07 03:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you're going through! But don't beat yourself up. It's normal to get shy around a guy you like,especially when he surprises you. Next time, MAKE A RESOLUTION to be bold and look into his eyes when he approaches. You don't have to flirt with words yet, just focus on looking at him. You will feel more confident and move on to the next stages.
This is important to do, or you'll end up like me: I just recently lost a guy I had a HUGE crush on because I got too nervous when we ran into each other unexpectedly. He actually asked me where I was headed, if I was going home, and I said "Yes, I have to go home and study" !! He thought I was turning him down and WE RAN OUT OF TIME!
Please don't let the same thing happen to you. I still think about him but now I'll never see him again. Don't let someone you like pass you by because of shyness.
2007-03-07 03:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably felt really awkward talking to just your friend and not you when (it sounds like) he actually wanted to talk to you, and because you were texting on your mobile he's probably got the impression you aren't interested.
If you are interested in him, I'd ask for his number somewhere and say something like I'm sorry for being a bit rude the other night we should talk some other time. Make it casual so he feels better about the situation but not too sure he will definitely get in there with you.
If you aren't interested, then just make small talk with him next time you see him but don't shy away from him again!
Hope all goes well!
2007-03-07 12:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by shere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably felt really awkward talking to just your friend and not you when (it sounds like) he actually wanted to talk to you, and because you were texting on your mobile he's probably got the impression you aren't interested.
If you are interested in him, I'd ask for his number somewhere and say something like I'm sorry for being a bit rude the other night we should talk some other time. Make it casual so he feels better about the situation but not too sure he will definitely get in there with you.
If you aren't interested, then just make small talk with him next time you see him but don't shy away from him again!
Hope all goes well!
2007-03-07 11:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by katkitten135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think so. If that was me, I'd have totally mis-read the signals and thought you weren't interested, so may not try again. Ask him out, or at least start a conversation, then he'll realise he mis-reda the signs and might ask you out. Good luck ;-)
2007-03-07 11:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by PhoenixRights 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likley yes, it will be easier for him to ask the more intrest you show. The fear of rejection weighs heavy on alot of guys minds. To ask and be turned down can be a real blow to a guys confidence/ego.
Make sure you show intrest in him.
2007-03-07 11:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be possible but you don't get a second chance to make a first good Impression. But there is always hope. If he really likes you I think he will.
2007-03-07 11:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he would asked, the next time u see him try to talk to him, flirt with him, then he might take the risk
2007-03-07 11:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Wendicita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably would have asked if you had given him the time of day, he may ask again but it depends on how sturdy his ego is. You may have to give him a few 'come on' signals to get him fired up for you again.
2007-03-07 11:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he might have wantd to ask you out..but you were txting and maybe he thought you already had someone in your life...
I'm not too sure if he will be daring enough to ask you again...but hopefully he will be
2007-03-07 11:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knowsnext time u see him try and get him alone bump into him at the bar or something dont think he will ask in front of people incase he is rejected
2007-03-07 11:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by miss_blueuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋