last week ago this boy was always talking to me and we were getting really close.. and i fell in love with him..but now he doesn't even talk to me! he is hanging around some other girl now!! what is he doing? he doesn't even want to be friends with me?
2007-03-07 03:10:57 · 10 answers · asked by xcrazyx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Playing the field is what he is doing. It does not mean he dosent like you, just he wants to play around, stay free and get no **** from the people he leaves behind
2007-03-07 03:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by susieboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature boys have a tendency to do that! Just when they get us to fall for them they move on. Is he normally like that....does he flirt with a lot of girls? Is he known to be a player?
You didn't say whether or not you told him your feelings, but if you did then he may have gotten scared when you were getting too close. He was probably just wanting to have fun.
If you didn't tell him your feelings, then he is probably just playing the field. I suggest you do the same. Don't let him think he got to you. If you have any guy friends, ask them to flirt with you when he is around and see if he has any reaction. If he doesn't seem to notice or react, then he was just enjoying a good flirt with you, and once he got too close, he had to back off because he just wants to have fun and nothing serious. Above all, don't communicate (call, text, email, or go up to talk to him) with him in anyway unless he communicates with you first! If you do, then he will get the impression you are needy and deperate and he will stay the heck away from you for sure! God Bless you.
2007-03-07 03:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared him off. You obviously showed these feelings that u thought were love, and that would scare most guys off after a week. You need to really get to know a person, and let them get to know u before u turn it into full-fledged love affair. Take it slow next time.
2007-03-07 03:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell in love with him in just a week's time? Wake up. He's obviously didn't feel the same way.
2007-03-07 03:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you fell in love with this boy? Wow. I'm sure it is just puppy love and you will get over it eventually.
2007-03-07 03:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are like that. they see someone they like and start flirting with the girl but once they see someone they like better, they completely forget that just the other day, they couldn't get their minds off you. you're young, take your time and enjoy your youth. go out with friends. you'll meet someone who will treat you exactly just how you want to be treated and you'll look back at this day and laugh about it.
2007-03-07 03:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over with you, sorry, but thats how guys do that when they are young, just move on and forget him. you can and you will, later in life you may not even remember his name. really that happens to alot of us! just don't waste more time and don't make yourself look needy by trying to talk to him. he will be on to the next girl after this girl and so on, its how life goes and how we all learn rejection. youll be just fine!
2007-03-07 03:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a self servin jerk....just get over him fast and move on.
then he will come around beggin.
2007-03-07 03:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably scared him off by falling in love with him in a week.
HELLO?
2007-03-07 03:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just got touched by a playa...sorry hun
move on...
and no, you're not in love with him
2007-03-07 03:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋