i've been wit this guy for a month n two weeks and now one of my friends likes me. I liked him befor for a very long time almost 3 years but i never told him and now i don't know what to do he says that i should break up wit my bf to be with him or to just be with him on the side but i don't want carma to come and bite me in the butt. he is way cutter then my bf and he is always flirting with me when i see him
2007-03-07 03:01:56 · 19 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres really no such thing as karma. do what your heart feels you dont want to stay in a relationship with sopmeone just cause its comfortable. take a chance if youve been waiting 3 yrs for this chance. youve only been with your bf for a couple of months so it shouldnt be hard
2007-03-07 03:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Joe D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They guy you liked for 3 years is just mad because you moved on and found someone else. He had 3 years to come around now hes pushing up on you? Keep your current guy and let the old guy wish what he could have had. Cute isn't everything. Alot of "Cute" guys are jerks because they know they are cute and there will always be a girl willing to go out with them. Give nerdy guys a chance. They will treat you like Gold.
2007-03-07 11:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by UnderTigger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself who you truly like better. Is it you less 'cute' boyfriend or the guy you fancied for 3 years.
This sounds like it might just be a case of if you can't have it you want it. You fancied this other guy for 3 years but if you now fancy your boyfriend then maybe you feel like going out with this guy just because you feel it might do you justice. And just because this other guy is 'cuter' than your boyfriend and flirts with you more doesn't mean he's the right person with you - he might be like this with other girls.
Have a good, long, hard think about this one.
If you leave your current boyfriend for this other guy and you find you aren't as happy, you can't go back, because you will have hurt your boyfriend and he might not want you back because of what you did to him. Plus then you will have hurt two guys..
Follow your heart.
2007-03-07 11:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by katkitten135 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sound's to me like you are leaning toward's the young man you liked before. Do yourself a favor if you place any value in yourself take time and weigh the situation carefully,could you possibly be giving up something good for the unknown..being cute is definately a plus but look's sometime's don't tell the whole story about a person.
2007-03-07 11:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by mary&ronnie d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how can someone who claims to care about you settle for seeing you on the side while you still have a boyfriend? if this other guy is really serious, he would show you that he is the one who deserves to be with you. he won't flirt with you on the side even if you have a boyfriend. i suggest that you weigh your feelings and choose which one of them you feel more strongly for and choose. how would you like it if your boyfriend (or this other guy flirting with you) was doing the same thing with another girl?
2007-03-07 11:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well true its quite tight, hope this one helps....
try to wiegh them both. which one would give you more happines, which one would give you more affection or which one will help you out in times of need... I don't know how you feel but you would have to chose carefully. theres a reason for everything so consider all options and opinion before making any decision... goodluck
2007-03-07 11:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by JL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wants you to sneak around, then that should tell you something... THAT could come back to haunt you. He could end up cheating on you, or say that he thinks you are screwing around because that is what you did when you both first got together...
Not a good idea...if you really want to be w/ him, you have to end it w/ your current bf
2007-03-07 11:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lose the guy who wants to be with you on the side. You're crazy to even consider wanting to be with someone that selfish, the dude isn't even considering the consequences YOU will have to deal with later.
2007-03-07 11:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh it is really hard but u can know who will there for u if u are in trouble just the both of them that u are in a trouble and see who will try help and choose him.
2007-03-07 11:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is best. If you like your bf more than your friend don't try to stay away from your him, talk to him about it.
2007-03-07 11:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋