I know this is wrong but i opened my girlfriends email and saw an email that she sent to one of her friends. She told her that she has been talking to her ex online for the past few days, but said "nothings happening there." Should i be worried. I cant confront her because she will know i read her email without her permission. Do I have something to worry about because she is talking to her ex boyfriend? She told me he broke her heart and that she was never gonna talk to him again. Am i being overly parnoid or do i have a legitimate concern here?
2007-03-07 02:54:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to clarify.. her friend that she was talking to lives in a different state, and they werent talking for a while.
2007-03-07 03:01:38 · update #1
Relationships are built on trust, I would just find time for the two of you to just talk and ask her what's on her mind. Is she happy with the relationship the two of you have and is there anything that she would change? Just because she is in contact with her old bf means nothing, she stated that there is nothing there to her girlfriend , maybe he contacted her first...
2007-03-07 03:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by CURIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she have to tell her friend that nothing was happening? Her friend should just know. You both are in the wrong--her for saying that she'd never talk to him again and doing so, you for breaking into her e-mail. You two have trust issues and you obviously don't trust her. Without trust, it's not a relationship.
2007-03-07 03:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says nothing is happening then nothings happening between them my ex boyfriend broke my heart but we still talk so i just think your being parnoid until you can get real evidence that something is happening i wouldn't worry about it.
2007-03-07 03:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer dishonest contained in the "physcial" way. that is nevertheless incorrect. i'm no longer saying this to be advise, yet you kinda had a fashion out the third round. Its been ongoing b4 you've been married w/infant. Hes hurting you and do not seem to care. If he desires to seem at different women human beings and faux to "spice" up the sex, theres continually porn!
2016-10-17 10:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how long ago they broke up they could both be over the past and actually have a friendship. you shouldn't sweat it though she is with YOU not him. I would actually say something about it but if she says nothing is going on then BELIEVE her unless she gives you reason otherwise.
2007-03-07 03:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna half to confess of reading the email, or she'll find out and then your screwed. Find out why she's talking to him it could be good or bad for you can't find out unless you ask good luck!
2007-03-07 03:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Josh Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u dun trust her..it means tat ur relationship is not tat stable at tis moment..maybe u shld jus ask her abt it..being honest is very impt in a relationship...dun keep it 2 urself.....u will onli get more suspicious & if tis drags on it will harm de relationship...
2007-03-07 03:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your going to have to ask her whats going on with her ex. i know i still see and talk to my ex, but my current boyfriend knows that i talk to him and i still see him sometimes. your going to have to tell her you read her e-mail but you should ask her what is going on with her ex. good luck and have a good day
2007-03-07 03:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ladybugisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋