I hate my mom, she is sooooooooo annoying. How do I deal with her?

Question

She is a phycologist, and she tries to analize everything i say.

Answer 1

begin to analyze everything SHE says
do it abck to her and she will get the point after a while
she will understand that you are mocking her and that what she does to you is bothering/annoying you

Answer 2

Tell her that she may not realize it, but you feel as though she treats you like one of her patients. Tell her that when you talk to her , you would like to have an enjoyable sharing conversation without her tearing apart what you are saying . If that does not work, write her a letter expressing yourself and tell her it is because you don't feel you can talk to her. She probably does not mean any intentional harm and if you only hate her for that reason, then you also need to take some responsibility for your actions, it doesn't sound as though you are the easiest person in the world to get along with either. Good luck to the both of you.

Answer 3

Sad that you would even say you hate your Mom. She's the only one you have and does a lot for you I'm sure. If she tries to annalize everything you say and it bothers you... tell her, in a calm demeanor that it's annoying and you'd like her to stop. You obviously are young and feel Mom is messing in your territory, but maybe she feels as your getting older your slipping away and just wants to be part of your life. Let her in at least on some levels, and tell her you just need a little more space and a little less working mom at home. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well not that I'm an expert here but I would say that maybe you should just be quiet for a while. She'll try to pull things out of you and you can stay silent. If she keeps on and keeps on tell her you know, we're never going to be close because when I do open my mouth you analyze everything I say. I would like just to talk normally to you without you doing that, because your analasys of me is not always how I feel and you miss the point because your looking at me like a case study. I'm perfectly capable of knowing how I feel about something, thank you, I do not need you to tell me all the time. I need you to listen sometimes rather than talk.

Answer 5

I have a suggestion, actually two. First, as a mom, I have to answer with a mom's point of view. You have to realize that kids don't come with an instruction book. We can only base our reactions on what we know of YOU and that sometimes means asking questions. Also, try to understand that we are scared, yes, scared. Of making a mistake, of not being able to help our children cause we don't always know what is going on in their lives. That scares me the most as a mom...have I convinced my son that he can come to me with any problem at all and I will always help him? So I keep repeating that message. Maybe that's what your mom is doing.

Suggestion from other viewpoint: If you have a good friend, maybe one that mom doesn't know, have him/her go to mom as a patient. Have them put forward that same problem to her...my mom is a phsychologist, she analyzes every word outta my mouth, I can't talk to her.... See what advice your mom gives to this....and maybe, she'll recognize herself and you in the problem. Never know, could work! Good luck and remember, no one on earth loves you more than your parents...they are the only ones who have absolutely NO ulterior motive in helping you. Others,well, you just never know!

Answer 6

You do not realize it now, but your mother is trying the best she can and always has your best interest at heart. To say you hate her is not only disrespectful but also if she ever found this would hurt her terribly. There are some things that you can not take back and the sign of maturity is knowing that. Shame on you.

Answer 7

Hate is a STRONG word .. I doubt you really "hate" her ... dislike her at times but not hate. I have an Aunt who is the same way (same profession too) and it's hard for them to seperate work from home. Not just that but in your Mom's mind she is trying to help you and thinks she is doing the right thing. When you comment on how annoying she is that just makes her want to work harder to get to the root of your problems. I bet when you say "Mom you're so annoying!" she comes back with "What's annoying about me?" or "what things do I do that annoy you?" and that makes it worse. My advice to you is learn to deal with it, ignore her, when she is talking to you sing a song in your head, take portions of her advice (the stuff you like) and see what happens.

Answer 8

first, realize that she is a mother, and they are all annoying, especially to their daughters.

second, realize that YOU are probably very annoying to her as well. and this is where the cycle begins.

she has to analyze what you say because she knows what it really means, or at least what it should mean.

but, situations are never that simple, so it is possible that she is wrong about what you mean when you say something, or that there is an underlying situation that she is not familiar with.


if the worst thing shes doing is psychoanalysis, DONT WORRY.

theres alot of mothers out there smoking crack and prostituting themselves around, so buck up and do like every other kid in history,

WAIT TILL YOUR 18 AND GET THE HELL OUT OF DODGE!!

Answer 9

this may definetly be a hormonal issue she is going through, regardless of the truth that if she had a hysterectomy. once you've a hysterectomy, you immediately flow through early menopause. My mom went through something similar even as she went through menopause, inspite of the truth that no longer as drastic. you are able to save in ideas, even inspite of the truth that she is performing this type and it may no longer be suitable, she continues to be your mom. All you are able to do is be the more suitable positive more suitable grown up in this project, supply her recognize because she continues to be your mom and ultimately she will manage to come back out of this. do exactly what you want to do to make your existence reliable, alongside with getting reliable grades, %. a school the position you are able to go away the living house, mabey get an element time activity so that you'll ordinary strategies to help your self, do exactly the belongings you want to do to make your existence and your destiny more suitable positive. she will manage to come back round ultimately, going out and partying each and each of the time receives previous in any case. And in case you save doing what you want to do, she will manage to ultimately see the mistakes in her way and say sorry to you and be apologetic about her moves as a mom.

Answer 10

I'm sure that gets totally irritating... but she is your mom regardless.... in this day and age, all parents worry...probably too much...
Just let her know that you want to be able to talk to her, but it is frustrating to you when you feel that she is always trying to find another meaning to what you are saying.... Tell her that if she doesn't tone it down a bit, you aren't going to want to open up to her... as a parent, that might do the trick!!
Good luck to you!!

Answer 11

Either stop speaking, by ignoring her or using sign language, or throw her for a loop. Look up some strange disorder and start acting like that just to see what she does. While it sucks to have someone picking at your every word/action, you can also have alot of fun w/ it. It all depends on what YOU want to do w/ the situation. the smartest thing to do is to talk to her. what could it hurt?