me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 2 years and weve had sdex .. 6 times and everytime i always left my shirt on my boyfriend always tells me 2 take it off he thinks it is more romantic so feel eachothers skin on one another. the thing it i do not like how my chest looks or my stomach he tells me just to be comftorable with him. i dont want him 2 think im fat or something.
so i promised him next time id take my shirt off... =[
help
2007-03-07 02:49:21 · 19 answers · asked by foreverbabe819 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...compromise try it withought any light's on.Trust in him that you aren't as hidious as you might think
2007-03-07 02:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by mary&ronnie d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it off and leave the room darkened with a candle for light or a cover on the side table lamp. It will provide a romantic glow and a flattering light.
2007-03-07 11:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're feeling this insecure with yourself then you are most likely to young to be having sex. And the fact that you have the number of times counted makes it a fact that you're too young.
My advise keep your shirt and pants on a while long until you can grow and mature enough to be engaging in such a grown up activity.
2007-03-07 10:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama_rules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awwl babe .. well one if he really loved you he would accept that you dont want to take your shirt off but i must say it would be alot more romantic if you just take it off. Now .. hunni dont be embarrassed of the way you look everyone comes in different shapes and sizes and you shouldnt be ashamed of the way you look. If you are allowing him to see your below area and you are both enjoying it you should just go the whole way and keep the shirt off .. he might think your hiding something like a hickey and you dont want him to think that well good luck =]
2007-03-07 10:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you should take it off next time because if you don't, may be he will get angry and might course the end of the relationship since you promised to take it off next time
2007-03-07 11:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl like you once.
She never liked the way she looked so we did it with most of our clothes on until...
we decided to do it in the dark. We knew were everything was.. the eyecandy wasn;t there but we still had skin to skin action and it was nice.
2007-03-07 10:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are comfortable with the shirt on,
dont let him stress you into having sex, sex is wonderful and there will come a time when you will be comfortable with being naked,, give it time, no need to rush into anything
2007-03-07 11:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it of, if you've been together for 2 yrs and he leaves you because of you "thinking you're fat", then he doesn't love you anyway.
2007-03-07 11:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r not comfertable with takin your shirt of 4 him u 2 problly shouldnt be havin sex....and if u still do...do what u want..your the woman and he should like whatever u want so u feel comfertable+
2007-03-07 10:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by James W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you promised then take your shirt off you have to be comfortable with him
2007-03-07 10:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it off next time.
2007-03-07 10:53:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋