My gf and I are very much in love but Things are tense between us do to personal struggles and I am wanting to make things better for us. We have been fighting a lot and I want to make things up to her. I need ideas about how to put the spark back in our relationship? Whta do girls enjoy and forgive me for being blunt but i don't know of a politer way to say it but what turns girls on what do you dream about I want to be the one guy in a million to her so how can i do it?
2007-03-07 02:40:33 · 20 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know very much how you feel. My boyfriend and I have also dealt with trying times in the past. We have gotten through them and in result it has made our relationship stronger, and we are more in love now than we ever were. He is my best friend, and I I don't know what I would ever do with out him. However, I think you may have the wrong idea about how to make it work. It takes more than just doing a few things to turn a person on. Relationships that are based on sex tend to have the sparkle and fade effect. They are beautiful for a little while, but tend to fizzle out after a period of time. I hope for your sake that your relationship is not that type because it sounds like you really care about her. I can't tell you exactly what to do because only you know her on that level. But, think about the things she loves most. What are some things you have done together that have been unforgettable for you both? Maybe try and visit some of your favorite places, do some things that you love to do together. Most importantly talk. Communication is the key to everything, and it is very possible that she feels the same way you do. My boyfriend and I talk all of the time. We lie awake in bed some nights and I put my head on his stomach and we talk into the early hours of the morning. Sometimes about important things, sometimes about absolutely nothing. You have to look at the things you fight about and make the decision as to how important those things are in the big scheme of things. Life is too short to spend it fighting.
2007-03-07 03:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by stefanisky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What turns a girl on (and puts the spark back into the relationship) is stuff you do outside the bedroom. Spending good quality time together with no strings attached (meaning no ulterior motive for sex)... laughing together... Not focusing on sex... Focusing on anything BUT sex... Good communication... Kissing her with no ulterior motive... Letting her make the first move... Making her feel like your treasure just for who she is... Holding her hand sometimes out in public... Those kinds of things. You have to build back up faith in the endurance of your relationship. Sex is the icing on an already good cake. Know what I mean?
2007-03-07 02:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. That will put a fire back into things and you'll both know how it feels to be without the other. You're going to fight again and that feeling of "would you be better off without them" will haunt you the rest of your life. Get out while you can.
If you get back together after some time apart then you have something worth working at. If not, then you're wasting your time.
2007-03-07 02:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by MetalHeart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here you go pal.....
Trying to understand a woman is like gazing at a calm Pacific Ocean during a sunset on a summer eve. It is beautiful, inviting, mysterious and mystical. But hiding underneath that resplendent surface are sanguinary creatures and hazards beyond all imagination.
And you think someone has the answer....your kidding of course. No one knows what motivates any woman.
2007-03-07 02:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first pls sort out watever probs/ conflicts u have wif ur gf...u can establish a stable relationship only by dealing with the underlying probs...nxt being thoughtful in little ways such as buying sth 4 her 2 eat when u noe she hav not eaten or offering help when she is busy can mean a lot to her...be creative & take the initiative to patch up ur relationship wif her..all the best
2007-03-07 02:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by pinkbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically us girls are very different in what we dream about and what we want. If you want to know what will make your gf happy, you should sit down with her, and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you really love her and that you want to make it up to her, and that you want to be the best bf to her, or that you want to be the one guy in a million to her. Ask her what she would like to do, or what she wants, or even how you can make her happy. Do whatever she wants to do or have, providing its within reason, and just make her happy.
2007-03-07 02:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can honestly take time out of your guys' busy schedule and try going on "dates" more... you guys seem to comfortable with each other, it's not that the spark is just gone... it needs to be rekindled is all... if you e-mail me, my moms friend actually bought me two small books, one called "Coffee Dates for Couples" and the other called "Dates on a Dime"...they have real cute ideas ! I wouldn't mind sharing!
2007-03-07 02:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that can admit when he's wrong. If you're fighting that much, do you really want to be in a relationship with her? Don't take your stress about work/school/whatever out on her.
2007-03-07 02:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
human beings hostile to it , they are suitable . yet , thats the unlawful/ legal area of it . If it truly is a real courting , severe. then age doesnt count number number in any respect , until eventually the adult males like 22 and the females like 13. yet, regulation smart , i agree , and he will geet in various difficulty in case you get intimate . For severe , flow for it , no longer something could stop absolutely everyone from LOVE . yet, "this man or woman" or the reason you ask, needs to becareful . it truly is nonetheless risky no count number number how close, or imagine you recognize the guy. reliable luck.
2016-12-05 09:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance, romance, romance. For me, sincerity and communication are key. Write her a poem, dedicate a song to her, or serenade her outside of her window. SHOW her how much you love her, don't just SAY it. Actions speak louder than words. Be honest with her. Open you heart and let it flow. Good luck !
2007-03-07 02:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋