1 person in life
2007-03-07 02:37:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
There is no limit on love. God teaches us to love everyone even our enemies. We are only to marry one person, and marriage according to scripture is two people becoming one in the eyes of God. There is no obligation to marry. Paul writes that perhaps it is better not to be married.
2007-03-07 02:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by gerafalop 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Limit love by marrying one person? Well, it isn't about sex! Love is not sex, it is the product of love and a few other things but you get the picture!
There are no limits! Love is unlimited and when you marry, it gives you the freedom to love unconditionally and with out fear of reprisal. You have children and that love continues to grow! Your children have children and that love still continues to grow and so on and so on!
If you believe that marriage to one person will limit your freedom to love you will be forced to hold back the love you really wish to express! You will have to split that love and express evenly a love that should be given fully, because you can hurt one or the other should you show a bit more to one and not the other. This will hold you back! Loving freely and without reservation is like no other emotion you can ever experience. But, if you must split it between several lovers, you will never receive the benefits from it's full potential! Love is not about self gratification, it is about the shared gratification between two people who wish to gratify each other. There is a difference!
'I love you more than anything!" Can never leave you lips because it would be a lie! You could never truely convince everyone that you love them 'more' than anything when you have to love the other partner with equal verosity. You would eventually hurt the so called people you love as well as yourself! This is not love! This is self gratification!
Good Luck
Blessed Be
2007-03-07 02:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by chocolateforever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A very fair question.
I personally have found that living in a monogamous relationship--making a home together, sharing the burdens, contributing and drawing from the same bank account, being there for one another in times of crisis, as well as times of joy--allows for a much higher quality of intimacy than is possible outside of that bond. You find that it's really not about the sex. The bond itself is a source of great joy and comfort. Of course, most of that comes from romantic ideals about marriage learned from childhood, but that doesn't make it any less real or satisfying.
That said, I'll admit that marriage isn't for everyone, and being married does not guarantee that the participants will be happy together and feel the kind of closeness and intimacy I mentioned. But I still say that a single committed relationship is potentially more satisfying--deeply satisfying--than dozens of uncommitted relationships based only on physical attractions.
2007-03-07 02:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know - I don't really see it as a limitation. Why would it be?
Of course - I love my husband more then I have loved anyone else on earth ,and he me. So being together with him for the rest of my life is my utmost desire. This doesn't mean I can't love other people - I just have no want or need to love anyone else remotely like my husband.
If we were supposed to marry mutliple people - would you be able to love them all equally?
2007-03-07 03:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage does not limit love to 1 person in life.
You can love your parents and still be married...can't you?
Marriage does not limit love in any way.
~ Eric Putkonen
2007-03-07 02:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I feel kind of sorry for you if you truly believe that marrying and staying with one person puts a "limit" on love. When you grow up a little hopefully you will understand.
2007-03-07 02:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
In my experience marriage, and creating a family within that marriage has expanded my capacity to love much further than it ever could when I was "free" and dating lots of different guys.
2007-03-07 02:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by daisyk 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because tht is asin to love a lot of men god will put you with the right man you dont have to be married you can when it is your time some weomen are meant to be alone for a reason maybe to preach the holy name to other people thatr is what i am going to do bye now god bless you
2007-03-07 02:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by *emokisses<3* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is NOT limiting love.
2007-03-07 02:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because with most religious beliefs, they believe its a sin to have sex outside of marriage. I don't know about you, but I want to sample the milk, before I buy the cow.
2007-03-07 02:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋