My relationship is very unstable. we constantly break up and get back together. Lord knows I've tried to keep the peace.
It all comes down to this question... If you've been trying to fix a relationship for over six months...is it time to call it quits?
2007-03-07 02:37:05 · 20 answers · asked by *VS* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER AND WHAT IS GOING ON. IF YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN WITH HIM FOR 6 MONTHS THEN YES , MOVE ON.
2007-03-07 02:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. Do you really want to be a relationship that your constantly arguing and always trying to fix. Maybe its not meant to be fixed. I usually don't believe in breaks or time outs but if you still have strong feeling for this person try taking some time apart and re evaluate your relationship see if its even worth saving or fixing.
2007-03-07 10:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by h0n3y_l1ps_27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is about happiness. If you are not happy, you are most liky not in love, or not in love with the right guy (yet).
If there's no other legal issue to tied you both down. I would only suggest you give each other a break. If you both do get back together in the future, say 5-10 years later, then maybe you are both fated to be together.
Else, go out and explode and enjoy the many more faces of life and the experiences it give to share times with others.
Cheers
2007-03-07 10:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what you feel is right. If you want to keep trying, go for it. If you want to call it quits, I'm sure you will find someone else. I tried fixing a relationship for 2 years and now the guy and I never speak...we aren't even friends. If you're not happy, find someone or do something that will make you happy. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-07 10:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship that is making you unhappy, break it off. If you have tried, but nothing seems to make things better, then it is time to move on. Sometimes it is hard to think of being alone, and maybe that is why you hold on to the relationship so hard, but in the long run, you will be happier. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you........
2007-03-07 10:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by erin_foss8191@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the only person working to fix the relationship....then its not a relationship. If you make a total break with no calling/ seeing/ emailing etc. and you still miss th person...then YOU have to decide if he is worth fighting for. After 6 months...i would say move on...after all...Only love an break heart...but only love can mend it again :)
Best of luck in your search :)
2007-03-07 10:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by shak2043 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I realized one day, I can not fix my partner or our relationship by myself. I can only fix my self and the way I think which will change the way I feel. There is much that life has to offer you. So going out there and take what you really want. Just focus on what you want in a positive manner and keep your energy good. If he is who you want only focus on the GOOD! It will change. If this not what you really want and I feel that is what you are saying move on and leave it in the past. Focus on the new, forget the old.
2007-03-07 10:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no realationship, It's called dating and if you feel that 6 months of
fixings is more then you should devote then maybe you are right.
Just remember a date should not be so diffcuilt. There are other issues
to deal with that are more important. My advise is continue to date and compare one to the other, don't forget we are still human and in order
to be completely you may need more then one date. Surely, you will know
when the right partner comes thru the door and the same will standard
will then apply to you. "IF YOU CAN"T BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE, BE
WITH THE ONE THAT LOVES YOU!".
2007-03-07 10:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by themeathanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if you can't fix a relationship with in a month its over. Move on and find a new guy.
2007-03-07 10:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's this bad and it's only been 6 months you know it's not going to work. Not to sound harsh, but you both shouldn't waste your time on something that you know in the end is just going to end up hurting you both. Good luck hun.
2007-03-07 10:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself how you will handle this relationship if it is like this forever. People rarely change, so your relationship is what it is. Is that future stretching out in front of you something you like or don't like? If the latter, it's time to end it and move on.
2007-03-07 10:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by Steven D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋