Monday night my now ex boyfriend was over at my house (like every night) and was checking his email. Well, for the first time ever he checked his MySpace with me beside him and I saw there were recent messages from his ex (the chick he was still hung up on). While he was eating I went to go check my MySpace and saw he was still signed in so I checked the emails and he had emailed her Feb. 27 & 28 and told her "I love you and I always will". I was so upset that I made him come from outside into my room and I told him to sit down and shut up then I locked the door so he had no choice but to listen to what I had to say. I chewed him out saying he needed to make up his mind. I left him in there to think of what he wanted and when I came back he was like, you're telling me you went through my personal private messages and I said yes and he said it's over and walked out and left. I've been so upset but I laughed when his ex deleted him from her MS the next day so in the long run he got his.
2007-03-07 02:34:48 · 25 answers · asked by trooper_rosebud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your brave to have investigate his information. He has problems with his self esteem. He gets positive feedback from girls and will continue this method until it quits working for him and sadly to say it may involve, STD's, getting someone he does not care for PG, or some crazy girl will go off on him, he's on his way to a really bad and pointless future.
You have a lot going for you. You took good care of yourself and did not take this personally. It sounds like you like yourself and have a good future ahead of you. What he did is a crime. A crime of the heart and someday he will have to answer for this.
Good Job!!! Keep taking good care of yourself!
2007-03-07 02:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
As someone who knows the whole story, he got what he deserved.
Once she saw that there was communication between the two of them (after he said that there hadn't been any in weeks), she had every right to look at his messages ... especially if he was that stupid to not sign out. She needed the truth, and he wasn't going to give it to her. In the end though, he kind of did because he was an idiot and didn't sign out.
Now, he realizes that he had the best thing, but it is now too late. He lost at his own game ... he lost the ex that he was "in love" with and the only girl that truly loved him.
2007-03-07 11:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by royal_red_1970 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it was wrong for you to go through his private stuff.....but..... he left it open, and you did have "probable cause" of sorts by past hang ups it seems. If that's the way he reacted and just walked away, consider yourself lucky! He didn't address the other issue because he knows what he did and that he was wrong. If he's not got you at the top of his list, then move on to better things. It hurts now, but time will heal, and your worth more than he gave! Good Luck!
2007-03-07 10:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did that one time to, went through the personal stuff. Oh well. Now I'm in a relationship with a guy that I truly love and am willing to do anythingi for.
It's all for the best in the long run!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-07 10:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You suck! You shouldn't be invading people's privacy that way. You should have more respect for people. Just because he says he loves her doesn't mean he is in love with her. I love my x-wife but I divorced her psycho @ss anyway because she always used to do stuff like that to me. Just because you love and care for some one doesn't mean you can be with them forever. A relationship is nothing without trust and obviously you are not ready for this and got what you deserved.
2007-03-07 10:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Vasago 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He done you wrong baby. Move on and find a guy how doesn't use myspace. Myspace is like a pick up bar... stay clear of any guy on it.
2007-03-07 10:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were right to check his emails. He should not be cheating on you behind your back. I do believe in Trust and honesty, but I also believe in being Smart. You are better off without him.
2007-03-07 10:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it was wrong for you to go through his emails.
How would you feel if he read your diary? Or your personal emails? Or went through your closet or purse?
Once you found out, however, you were correct in telling him to make up his mind. If he loves her, he should be with her. If he doesn't love you, then you shouldn't waste your time.
2007-03-07 10:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All things happen for a reason. It is better you found out now then down the road. You did right.
2007-03-07 10:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He only left because he was trapped with you in a locked room (literally)... he didn't know what else to do. He thought he could get away with it, and he was embarrased and mad at himself for leaving himself signed in.
He would not be mad if he didn't have anything to hide. Remember that.
2007-03-07 10:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Gina 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋