i really care for my boyfriend..... but sometimes i dont knoe if i can trust him i mean sometimes i dont know if he really cares for me i mean at school he doesnt want anybody to know we go out and of course people know.....should i stay with him????? he treats me good sometimes i love chillen wit him but when we;re not together i worry mayb i shouldnt be with him if i feel this way or should i talk 2 him!!!! i am only 16 and of alot of life left i hope cuz im tired of these 2 month relationship im not wanting a really serious b/f butta i would like him 2 treat me better plz give me some advice on if i should talk 2 him about how i feel or what i should do.....
2007-03-07 02:32:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u can talk to us about it u can talk to him to...not being mean just sayin...tell him whats going on ya'll can decide rather to break up or stay together
2007-03-07 02:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i used to be in a relationship like that... i'm still with the same guy too. well you should call him and have along talk. start by asking him how much he likes you. like write him a note saying how much you love him and whatever else, then if he breaks up with you then i guess he's not the right guy. trust me this is how i find out that my boyfriends were cheating or using me. luckily the guy i have right now was just worried i wouldn't love him. i love him to death!
2007-03-07 10:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by *devil eyes* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he more popular than you are?this could be the reason he doesn't want anyone to know that you two are going out, he could be ashamed of you and if i'm right, you should leave him right now.or he could be cheating on u and that his other gf is going to the same school with you, he doesn't want her to know about you. in both ways you should leave him.i'm 16 too and i try to live my life as much as possible why stick with one guy?go for others and don't ever fall in love when you're still too young
2007-03-07 10:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and if he doesn't listen or care then MOVE ON! Like you said you have a long life ahead of you! Good luck!
2007-03-07 10:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Awakened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said it, u r only 16, get out & enjoy life don't settle 4 1 loser who doesn't want anybody 2 know about u, he should b proud of u & NEVER hide u
2007-03-07 10:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got too many hangups with this relationship...It ain't worth the grief. Move on and get a new b-friend, one that is more compatable with you.
2007-03-07 10:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship you should talk to the person about the problems that may occur
2007-03-07 10:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him, if he doesnt want pepole to know about me, so break up. And find some else
2007-03-07 13:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my bf didn't want people to know we were dating i would be really upset...First i would try talking to him about how you feel....if he doesn't care....or doesn't try to make things better...then i would leave him!!!!
2007-03-07 10:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up w/ him if he dosen't make you feel special.
2007-03-07 10:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by brookey cookie :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋