I'm 24 and STILL living at home. I have lots of money saved up but not enough to buy something and it will take me another 4 or 5 years to do that.
I want to try renting an apartment. I make enough money to cover all of my expenses and I know I'll be just fine.
My problem is that my parents are NOT going to be impressed. They think that anyone who rents is stupid and its a giant waste of money.
I've tried asking to move out twice before and they just yelled and told me I didn't know what I was talking about.
I'm determined this time, I REALLY want to move out, but I'm scared half to death to tell them... any suggestions as to how to approach this?
I'd love to hear from some parents on this if there are any who read this, but any help would be appreciated.
2007-03-07 02:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by daphne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit down and talk to your parents. They need to understand that you are now an adult. From the comment "They think that anyone who rents is stupid and its a giant waste of money." I take it your parents have a lot of money. They need to understand that some people can not afford to buy things outright. Also, you don't need to ask them to move out of their house. You are an adult so just move out. Good Luck.
2007-03-07 03:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your folks probably don't want to see you grow up and leave the "nest". I am not a parent, but I can imagine it's hard to let your child go into the world by himself. But you have to just go and move out yourself; part of being an adult is making your own decisions without having to consult your parents all the time.
I would start by choosing a place that you think you want to live, then research the apartments around that area. The cheapest apartments that aren't projects are going to be around $800 a month, so plan to get a career that will support you financially.
2007-03-07 17:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by loz_chyna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not doing anything to hurt yourself, your parents will get over your decision of moving out. Just do it. I would find a place, commit yourself and then tell them. This way there is nothing they can tell you to try and change your mind because you will have no choice except if you break the lease which will cost you money. You are 24 and sound very responsible (I hope my teenagers become as responsible as you seem to be). Who knows, you may end up back home with them if you feel you want to save money faster so you can buy your own place sooner.
2007-03-07 07:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by pacshore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to go! It's great that you've been able to save some money. I definitely do not think it's a waste of money to rent--I'm 42 years old and still renting, no desire at all to buy. Think of it this way: you don't have to worry about maintenance, and if an appliance breaks down all you have to do is call the office and they'll bring you a new one.
As far as your parents, I think you should just tell them you're moving out. I think once they see you being independent and not asking them to bail you out, they'll be more receptive to the idea. Good luck!
2007-03-07 02:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey get out while you still can. You sound like a responsible adult with rather overbearing parents.
The majority of people rent long before they buy. They are the ones who sound ignorant.
According to their logic about renters then 75 percent plus of the population are idiots and your parents need to come down off their high horse.
You need to grow up and leave. Quietly look for an apartment and go.
2007-03-07 02:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by FairyPrincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just go and if they have a problem about it, they can't do much about it if you are 24 years old. Tell them you need to start your own life, and don't want to spend the rest of your life with them. You need to become more responsible and independent. It's not really there decision, it yours do what is right for you and your situation in life.
2007-03-07 02:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles_in_the_tub_4_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research renting to own in your area. You rent for a certain amount of time, then you own it. You're 24, you can make your own decisions. Your parents should want you to live your own life and be on your own and flourish.
Move in with a friend for a while, then get your own place.
2007-03-07 02:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a push-over and try to tell them. If they get mad, that's all they can do because you're grown. Just rent a nice apartment and get a nice paying job. They can't do anything about that.
2007-03-07 04:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Chrishonda Alston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who was in your situation and moved out.....As painful as it is, I would suggest you wait another year or two before you move out. You see I am 27 y-o and I wish I didn't move out just yet. I know you are responsible and might be able to handle stuff but It's not easy out there........financially and otherwise. Pls don't move yet!!!
2007-03-07 02:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hello there first i would like to know where you come from,bec i think this is imp each countries are having diff values and beliefs,and secondly are you a male or female?and how old are your parents? if you have time you can email me at this add and we could talk...........cmahuber@yahoo.fr
so hope to hear from you soon.......
2007-03-07 02:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by charlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋