am 20 an am still a vingin is this normall its not like i havent had chance to go an sleep around i just perfer to wait till i was in a stable r,ship..all my friends have done it an sometimes they go on bout it..an that i havent, do you think am to picky or am i rite to wait till am ready?
2007-03-07 02:24:15 · 25 answers · asked by miss shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your Virginity is your virginity and no one can take that decision away from you. They made their choice a long time ago and like some people, they probably regret doing it with the person they chose! Be proud that you are waiting, because this will only make it more special to you and the person you end up with. People are too easy about sex these days and although I did not regret losing my virginity at the time, I do sometimes wonder what if I had waited. Good on you girl, the wait will be worth it, I am sure. x
2007-03-07 02:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your body not there's, you can wait for as long as you want, do not let other people pressure you into anything, trust me you will regret it afterwards. Wait until you are in a loving relationship like you suggested and it will be so much better, if your friends keep on about it, point out your not a sleep around slag (this should shut them up) and it is your virginity and you can lose it to whomever and whenever you like.
Nice to see a Young lady with morals in this day and age.
2007-03-07 02:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read that there are many people who are 20 and are still a virgin, some say they want to wait until marriage, so I suppose it must be fairly normal. I'm a 16 year old boy and I haven't even kissed once!
2007-03-07 02:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready. That is the one thing you can never get back and once you give it up thats it. Be proud you still have your virginity. The man who ends up with you will be very proud of the fact that no one except him knows what it's like to be with you in bed.
2007-03-07 02:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Be proud of yourself for having the self respect to wait until you are ready and it feels right. By waiting, you have nothing to look back on and regret. Don't let peer pressure make you feel weird or anything. You are a smart person who has respect for herself and her body. Wait until it is right for you!
2007-03-07 02:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are right, it`s better to wait until you feel ready and not forced into anything, after all you can`t take that first time back!!! Your friends are probably jealous they didn`t wait.
Good luck with it all and have fun choosing that special man! Go girl!
2007-03-07 02:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by SarahLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly im sure your scottish! just saying becouse the way you say things in tex. anyway enough rabbiting on. yes i think you should wait till your ready coz ul only have a bad experiance and it will spoil it for you for when you do meet someone that you do want to have sex with. dont let your friends push you into doing something your not ready for. its your life and your choice.
2007-03-07 02:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing!
Don't let anybody tell you differently.
Waiting until you are ready is wonderful. Waiting until you are married, is even better!
Don't give in, you'll be greatly rewarded or waiting! â¥
2007-03-07 02:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to be asamed of. You go right ahead and wait till you're ready and let nobody tell you differently. I was 28 before...
2007-03-07 02:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be picky and wait u get nothing out of sleeping aroud but a bad rep so wait u r doing the right tihing
2007-03-07 02:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by amymamagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋