My ex and I have been spending every weekend together and it has become physical again in the last 3 weeks...?

Question

Monday night I was sick, so yesterday he drove an hour and a half, got off work early and came down and cooked dinner for me. He also brought a movie to watch. When we were together before, we never had the "define the relationship" talk...just not his way. But do y'all think we are kinda back together?

Answer 1

I would definitely say there appears to be feelings on both sides, especially since it's become physical. Sometimes actions speak louder than words & by the sounds of things, your ex is that kind of a guy. Just let him know how much you appreciate the little things he does for you & enjoy your time together. Time will tell what the future will hold.

Answer 2

You never mentioned how long he's been your ex? The best advise I can give you is talk to him & to take it one day at a time, and remember the best advice ever given to me about ex's, once your relationship becomes physical you can NEVER go back to just holding hands, take it slow & don't confuse sex for intimacy, make sure it's your mind, your personality and your self worth that he wants, not just sex, in a relationship you only spend about 20% of time in bed, for the other 80% you have to be able to communicate, god I'm glad I'm married & away from the drama of broken relationships, good luck, I hope you get what you want and need out of being with him, take care, Yvette

Answer 3

specific, you may tell him, in case you do not, you will not probable understand how he feels. in case you go away devoid of telling him, possibilities are high, he and his lady chum will %. up the place they left off and function a new child at the same time. next time you visit may well be too late.

Answer 4

sounds like wants to be back together talk about it see what happends

Answer 5

it seems like your learning how to be freinds which should come first take it slow one moment at a time!!

Answer 6

sure