when i emailed them with this account which they know that this is my email account, they used to reply. Now when I emailed them using a different email account (they know it was me), they don't reply to that email and this account anymore. They complained about me having too much email accounts, I only have 2 main email accounts. Why are my cousins like that? I know they did got my emails, but they never replied.
I feel like never going to their house for vacation. My parents go to my cousin's house for thanksgiving, new year, maybe for chinese new year. If my parents even suggest that we should go to our cousin's house, I am just going to say no to that, no more visiting trips to my cousin's house and he lives far (at least 400-500 miles apart). Is that the right thing to do? I feel so betrayed from my cousins. If they don't see my as their friend, why should I even go to my cousin's house anymore nor their marriage days, nor their graduation days anymore.
2007-03-07 02:23:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is an upcoming cousin's wedding at june. I am sure my parents would go but I don't see why should I go. My parents said because they are my cousin, I should go. But I don't see the reason why should I go since they didn't even have consideration for my emails. Can anyone explain this? why my parents doesn't let me stay home instead of going on vacation to my cousin's house for graduations, marriages, and vacations? I don't see the point of me being there anymore.
2007-03-07 02:23:25 · update #1
You are blowing this way out of proportion. Grow up.
2007-03-07 02:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by leaptad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know how you feel. My parents are practically the same way with a couple of family members we have. We're always going over to spend the holidays, family get- togethers, etc with them and we're not even close at all. Sometimes I feel like we're just wasting our time but my parents always push my brother and I to go over and visit with them. If you're Asian, just forget it. I tell them too that I don't like going to visit them, but they always insist. They say that if we don't go as a family it makes our side look bad (it's an Asian thing). You should talk to your parents. Maybe they think the same way like mine do.
2007-03-07 10:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you thieir cousins get over it they are family you are going to let some ignored emails get in the way of family?????? that is pretty weak. something bigger than that would make me hate them like if they shot me or tried to kill me stuff like that but not because they ignored my emails.
2007-03-07 10:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probebly just jealouse my cousins are the same way
2007-03-07 10:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Smurfett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋