they seem very shy and so nervous..
perhaps its just me atracting this type of man?!
since im shy myself
2007-03-07 02:20:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you are just really hot and he is scared that you will say no.
2007-03-07 02:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by jw1269 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If most men, even medallion men were honest there are times when asking someone out can be awkward and they come over shy.
I know I am an outgoing person who had no trouble asking women out until I met my wife that is, it took several weeks before I could pluck up the courage to ask her out.
Your a shy person by nature and changing that isn't going to be easy or happen over night but if you try to be more assertive and even make the first move then you can attract any man you wish, shy or not.
Having said that being shy isn't a crime, if the next time you should end up going out with a shy man then you should try talking to him and making it clear what you want from the relationship.
After all it is communication and honesty that makes relationships work and last the course.
All the best for the future,
BEANS.
2007-03-07 02:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by BEANS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to look at it from a different angle
It must be nerve-wracking asking someone out when they can say no
Think how soul destroying that can be
Some people are naturally shy so its really hard to ask a girl out
2007-03-07 02:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by Black Orchid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Every guy everywhere is shy asking girls out. It's in our DNA. We can't help it. In fact, I'm feeling a little shy right now making fun of your question.
2007-03-07 02:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you are shy a guy will match that emotion. It might just be that you are beautiful then you will just have to become ugly then you will attract guys that arent nervous.
2007-03-07 02:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Cadillac Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah not all guys.
Want to go out some time?
See, I wasn't nervous or shy.
You have some real sexy eyes!
See, again, not nervouse or shy.
I do have to say you have a nice butt and your hair smells nice.
Again, I wasn't nervouse or shy. It's easy and I made you feel good about your sexy self.
You smell nice too .What is that you'r wear?
2007-03-07 02:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not all. Likely your guy hasn't had too much experience taking a girl out.
This will past with time when both of you are more relax in each other's company.
2007-03-11 03:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good for a guy to be shy and nervous i guess, that means he's a good guy and he likes you and doesn't want to screw it up when he asks you out, he doesn't have experience probably and he's afraid you will reject him. not all guys are casanovas but if you're not looking just for a short adventure it's better this way; good luck:)
2007-03-07 02:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jack_of_hearts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Posibly. Some guys are, some are not. it all depends on the guy he is, and the kind you attrack. Normally, if you are shy, the people you tend to know are shy as well.
2007-03-07 02:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, guys are like this, younger ones and older ones. Speaking for the rest of the male population,
2007-03-07 05:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As girls are often very men...
Often a girl you like will no longer wnat to be your mate if she finds out she you fancy her to treat you like some kinds of perve or peado stalker or something of look at you like dirt like as if her standards are they low and laugh with mates.
Often not only do you loose your girl mates but all your join t mates.
Also girls are so picky you have to do it all absolutiely perfect or else.
So imagine how they feel when its happendd over and over again and they think you will probably hate them
2007-03-07 05:46:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋