Two guys in my girlfriends class keep touching her even though they know she has a boyfriend and yet she does nothing about it. I'm afraid something might happen because I'm a senior and I won't be here to protect her nxt yr. What should I do? Please give me some answers.
2007-03-07 02:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by Oaks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to treat your girlfriend with more trust and confidence... You may not be there for her after finishing ur school, but u need to help her grow emotionally and make her understand things she doesnt know yet.....
That will be the only thing that will protect her from making mistakes when u are not around....show her , guide her and make her feel that u want to protect her and love her...
2007-03-14 23:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these guys keep touching her and she doesn't want to do anything about it, then that should be a big hint. Maybe they aren't touching her in a sexual or suggestive manner. It could just be friendly. If she's not complaining, there's not much you can do, except maybe have a nice chat with the two fellas. If the touching really is unwanted, it needs to be reported. And as far as next year goes, you have to trust that she will do the right thing and report the unwanted touching, even if she's scared. Trust is a big part of a relationship.
2007-03-15 02:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by rainydaysarebeautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it depends on what you mean by "touching her." Are they touching her sexually? If so, they need to be reported to the school authorities. If no one is going to do anything about it, maybe such things are ignored in your culture, then you have to have a talk with these guys. And maybe a baseball bat too. If she is afraid then someone has to tell the authorities for her.
If they are not touching her in a sexual way (not touching her private parts) then it is up to her to stop it. Maybe she likes it. Human beings like being touched. If they give her a friendly hug or back rub maybe she likes it. She's just not going to tell you that.
2007-03-07 02:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she should do is report it to the teacher or principle. Unwanted touching should never be tolerated and won't be by the administration. What you should do is supportive during the process. If you try to deal with the situation yourself, you will only get yourself (and possibly her) into trouble without solving the problem.
2007-03-07 02:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I myself would be a little worried. Um, is she telling them to stop?? Because, if she isn't she might like it. But I am sure that that is not the case. So, if you want it stopped:::
Go up to them and casually, calmy, nicely tell them that if they don't stop, there will be conciquences. If they continue, tell them one more time that if they touch her again, you will ripp of there bazzizles and make them eat them slowly.
2007-03-07 02:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too bent out of shape. Right now your education is more important than getting laid and if it works it does if not then you are definitely young enough that this won't even phase you.
2007-03-15 02:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that if 2 guys are handling her she might just like it. Consider this buddy...If you were her and 2 guys moleste you, would you put up with it if you didn't like it???? Maybe you and her should have a serious long chat.
2007-03-07 02:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl should be able to tell the likes and dislikes thus you shouldn't be overly concern. One way is to have a one-on-one chat with her and offer her some advices.
2007-03-14 22:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must do something about it...don't let anybody touch ur gf.U must protect her.
2007-03-15 02:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by castle girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her about becuase if she just allows those guys to do that when you're there... who knows what she'll allow them to do when you're gone!!! also let those guys know that you dont appreciate them touching ur grl!!!
2007-03-07 02:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋