if i like somebody but we don't date and i plan on not taking it to the next level what should i do, because he also trys to control me, and i don't like it one bit, because he gets jealous very easy and calls like 3 or 4 times through out the day, and says i make him mad because i don't wanna date him just yet and he has tryed to put his hands on me before and has tryed to kiss me but i said no.!!!!
2007-03-07 02:16:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should talk to him because he sounds like the type that will try to fight you if you don't do what he wants you to do. You said yourself he's a little controlling. You don't need that in a relationship it will never work. You also said that you are not ready to jump to the next level just yet. If he can't respect yourwishes then baby he's not the one for you. You said he tried to kiss you and you told him no. What if he trys something different next time? You don'tneed him you can find better.
2007-03-15 03:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Zo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can girl! If he's already this controlling and disrespectful to you...take it as a warning! They're all signs of an abuser. Go to any website about domestic abuse and you'll see what I'm talking about. There are a lot of great guys out there. Don't settle for a loser like him!
2007-03-07 10:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by sneaky squirrel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him off. Publically. Consider getting a restraining order. He's controlling and abusive. You are 100% right not to date this guy. I wouldn't even be friends with him. Don't take his calls, don't talk to him, don't associate with him, or others who do. Cut yourself off. You said no, and if he forced it then that's sexual abuse. Report it immediately.
2007-03-07 10:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cut him out of your life - how hard is that? If you are teasing him by promising that at some point, you'll be dating him, then of course he's a jerk. But you know that. You are going out of your way to invite trouble - ask yourself why you need trouble in your life!
2007-03-15 08:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...yeah quit playing around, tell him why you don't want to take it to the next level...and if he can't accept that, then you don't even need him as a friend. People like this have a name for them...and what they do...while the cologne to it is rather sweet smelling, the action is not...OBSESSION!
2007-03-07 10:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide. Basically, he feels like you are sending him mixed signals. First, you tell him you like him, then you tell him you dont want to be with him. He is confused, and wants to know what is really going on. So either be with him, or end it. it is all up to you.
2007-03-07 10:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Linka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell about you to the guy and control mind
2007-03-07 10:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of the way of this guy! dont make him blind you and think you like him!!! if he tries hitting you again....talk to somebody about him...but stay away from him....if you stay with him...he'll end up going crazy and do something stupid! please stay away from him...i dont know you...but when i hear these kind of things i worry....stay away from him
2007-03-07 10:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl, you better get a restraint order on him, he's the kind of guys who will be abusive or might rape you. trust me...experience!
2007-03-07 10:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by *devil eyes* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you must not like him that much....plus he would be overprotective it sounds like and be a potential abuser.
2007-03-07 10:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by cute_angel_08kdh 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋