I am dating this guy who is younger than me by a year and a half. Problem is - He is planning on going to college (out of state) in August. My feelings have grown for him in our short relationship and I don't want him to leave. He wants to break the relationship off before he goes away because he doesn't want a long distance relationship. He told me that he would "only miss me a little he guessed". It seems like he is only stringing me along for his amusement and to pass time before he leaves for college. I don't want to be hurt again - What should I do?
2007-03-07 02:15:19 · 11 answers · asked by N 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, I don't think he's string you along. He probably really likes you but...a lot of guys associate going away to school with freedom and parties and starting fresh so they don't want to commit to someone at home. Remember girls are much more mature than guys are, especially in relationships so you are way further along than he is. That age difference could be showing itself right here.
Also, since he knew he'd be heading off to school maybe he never really took your relationship as a serious one. That could be why he answered you like he did. He thought you and him were just dating and having fun. There is always a chance that the guy could be a bum but don't jump to that conclusion right away.
It's really hard when you've been hurt by a guy but you really do kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Maybe, this was never really meant to be. You could have jumped in with a whole different mind set than he had. Anyway, he's telling you how he feels and even though it might hurt - he could be just telling you the truth. Don't give up on all guys cause of one. You're still really young and there is some guy just waiting for you. Experience life a little and you'll see guys do eventually mature. It just takes time. Hope you find your special one
2007-03-07 02:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like the guys telling u exactly how he feels and what he wants...and thats "NOT" being with you...someone whos really into u wont just break up with u even if they were moving across the world!!! i had a long distance relationship b4, but we broke up a year b4 he went to college because it just wasnt working out....but till this day were still friends..GURL, that guy doesnt respect the fact that ur willing to b committed during the time hes away, then u dont need that...find someone thats going to appreciate what you are willing to do for him. and mayb a little older than you too..=)
2007-03-07 02:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems just like you said "It seems like he is only stringing me along for his amusement and to pass time before he leaves for college" And being that he honestly and openly told you that he was going to break up with you anyways before he left. Pretty much he wasn't as serious about your relationship as you might have been. My opinion be thankful that he was honest and upfront with you. Now if you decide to still stick around that's entirely on you, because he did let you know his intentions.
2007-03-07 02:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by h0n3y_l1ps_27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off it sounds like he is an a$$ dump him and move on he is not worth anymore of your time if he will only "miss you a little" that tells you something he DGAF there are millions of guys out there and you dont need to waste your time on a low life im not trying to burst your bubble but its the truth and you will get over him you just have to find a fun exciting guy to keep your mind off things good luck
2007-03-07 02:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He doesn't value your feelings at all. If he won't miss you, then you don't need to be in a relationship with him. Go ahead and break it off. Be glad you didn't waste more time with him.
2007-03-07 02:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you just said here...what more does it take to make you realize he is playing you?????????
Duuhhhhhhhhhhhh
Besides long distance relationships do not work.
2007-03-07 02:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break off with him completely. He is too immature.
2007-03-07 02:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny, i feel sry 4 u, bt dat guy is heartless, u should never luv some1 like him eva again, n u know wat? u should jst let him go n u should never feel hurt, be friends with some1 else be4 he leaves n let him know bout it, so that he could know that u'll do fine without him!!ok?!
2007-03-07 02:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by cairo_kittens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him now find someone who can really love you and care for you. u dont need **** like that no one does. dump him !!!!!
2007-03-07 02:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by yoshi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST END IT. IT... SEEMS LIKE HE IS VERY INTERESTED IN JUST PLAYING WITH YOUR FEELINGS.. END IT BEFORE YOU GET HURT...
2007-03-07 02:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋