Eh, tell her?
2007-03-07 02:13:25
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answer #1
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answered by flyingconfused 5
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First of all, i would like to say that you might be feeling attraction for her not love. So don't confuse the two, they are two seperate things.
Just take a moment to ask yourself what is it in her that you want and again i don't recommend that you think of her as special (although i know its hard, but its for your own good). You have to believe that she doesn't really matter that much and here is why:
1. It will remove all nervousness from your side
2. This will result in boosting confidence and value on your side because you will come off as a challenge and unique compared to the needy pervets.
3. The less important you make something, the less the value (remember that)
4. With this stratergy, you will not get upset if she doesn't feel the same way as you.
5. She will try and please you instead
The reality of the story is that you want this girl and don't even for once try to hide it. The best thing to do is to show her that you are interested, because that what you want right?. Then after giving her all the attention, take it away from her and she will be chasing you . The key is to make her work for you not the other way round because the person with the most power in the relationship is the one who will decide your sex life.
Either way its a win or win situation, you have nothing to loose. Don't take it too serious or else you will **** up everything
Here is what you have to do:
-Look at her directly in the eye for just and a second more than usuall and try not to be nervous.
- When she looks back, check whether she looks down or away.(if she looks away, thats a bad sign)
-check also whether she's playing with her hair as you look at her
-if shes playing around stroking her necklace or something like that then thats a good sign.
-You should also catch her checking you out
After you've seen this evidence that she diggs you then approach her and just say hie with confidence and self assurance. Do make it a big deal, be the one to make her nervous and don't give a damn what she thinks about what you are wearing or something like that.
Then during the short conversation, ask her about what she likes to do and find out a bit about her.
When asking her questions, don't ask direct questions(like do you like r n b) because its either yes/no. Try to use presuppositions like "so, whose your favourate r n b artist" get it?
Then finally you should leave her wanting more of you. Make up an excuse and leave; with her number ofcourse.
The key is to assume that she likes you since you have been informed that she feels the same and try to hold her upto certain standards that she must live upto if she wants your time.
Thats what being an alpha male is all about,; going after what you want and not caring about what she will think coz thats not your job, thats hers.
Things are as difficult as you want them to be and remembe, theres nothing to fear than fear itself.
Finally don't try to impress her by showering her with compliments but complement her where she deserves a comment.
I recommend that you watch movies like Hitch by Will Smith and James Bond movies so that you can step your game up.
2007-03-07 02:28:42
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answered by loxzibit 3
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Tell her, u never know she might feel the same. Don't try and keep it to urself, she may think ur not interested.
Take her somewhere nice, doesn't have to be expensive, a walk or invite her round for her tea and tell her how u feel, chances are she will tell u she really likes u too, or she'll tell u she doesn't, either way isn't it best to know, then at least if she doesn't like u back in that way, u can at least deal with it and move on.
Good Luck Hunni, any girl who has someone to love them is very lucky.xx
2007-03-07 02:16:15
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answered by Shoe_Addict 2
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Ask her out if u really love her and you show her that she will trhink that u r really sweet. Don't brag around ur mates to make her feel horrible treat her with respect and if any1 sez any thin 2 u just ignore them. But if she has seen u with other girls and u really show off she will say no even if she likes u because she won't want 2 b treated like a piece of crap that u just trample over.
2007-03-07 02:19:41
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answered by xxprincess mexx 2
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Ask her out but don't show off infront of her mates and especialy infront of your mates, if you love her you will want 2 spend the rest of your life with her, if you just think she's fit you fancy her BIG difference, love is hard so prepare yourself for the worst so your not to disapointed if she says no.
Good Luck I hope she says yes! If not there are plenty of ways 2 get over her
a) Going out for a laugh with your mates.
b) Crying for a whole weekend ( yes I know u r a boy, it helps your emotions)
c) She's not good enough for you
GOOD LUCK, HOPE I HELPED
2007-03-07 02:20:54
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answered by ωєℓѕн 4
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Give up she doesn't like you because you don't elaborate and you don't have anything to say when you are around her because you are scared she won't accept you. Find a girl that loves you, not the other way around.
2007-03-07 02:16:04
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answered by Anonymous
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dont tell her you love her, but just that you like her. Love might be too string a word. Goog Luck
2007-03-07 02:14:40
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answer #7
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answered by need to know 2
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Tell her over a romantic candle lit dinner, take her out to he pub after, get her p*ssed and take her home and sh*g the *rse off her lol.
Who says romance is dead? lol
Just kidding. Tell her over dinner anyway. Be romantic!! Use your head (on your shoulders...)
2007-03-07 02:14:47
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answer #8
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answered by Mum-Ra 5
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tell her you love her. do it in a nice setting like in a park. and better give that "i love you" kiss.
2007-03-07 02:14:18
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answered by gladiatorghost007 3
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tell your love to her in a way she should marry u
2007-03-07 02:14:13
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answered by teju 2
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ummm... well let her get to know u. and be nice, funny. dont tell her u love her tho, its to much of a strong word. tell her u like her.
2007-03-07 02:22:46
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answered by Anonymous
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