my boyfriend has a friend that lives downstairs in our apartment building and he is a trouble maker. anyway the guy girlfriend started some trouble with me, and my boyfriend got mad at me and broke my radio and he punched a hole in my wall. he is 25 years old why is he hanging with these young people anyway
2007-03-07 02:07:30 · 18 answers · asked by sassy s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woww...ur boyfriend seems pretty abusive...u should not be with someone that treats you that way!!
2007-03-07 02:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - if your boyfriend his breaking your stuff and punching holes in the wall - you shouldn't even be with him.
He has no respect for your stuff which means he has no respect for you and he is acting violently - no matter what the reason you don't go breaking things and from personal experiance - if they start breaking your stuff and punching holes in the wall - he will soon start pushing you around and end up punshing you instead of the wall
2007-03-07 02:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Juanita L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broke your radio and punched a hole in your wall? Yeah, that's completely normal behavior.
Why are you overlooking the bizarre, violent tendencies of your boyfriend and nitpicking the company he keeps? That's like complaining that Jeffrey Dahmer took too much time in the bathroom.
2007-03-07 02:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chris A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couple of things...First someone who does not respect his, hers, and especially YOUR property will most likely in the future not physically respect you. It's a sign of future physical and/or mental abuse. Second, if he's hanging around younger people...possibly a sign of insecurities; wanting to feel mature because he can't feel sucessful with people his own age. My honest advice would be to sit down and think if this crap is something you want to deal with...if he takes his friends side and doesn't even consider your version of the events, then sweetie, you are too mature for this relationship and need to find someone else who will not only respect your posessions, but YOU! Best of Luck dear.
2007-03-07 02:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he gets that violent i'd find a new boyfriend...next time it might be your face instead of the wall. A man should always hold up for his lady, against anyone.
2007-03-07 02:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loyalty is an important trait for a lover to have and if your boyfriend is siding with them instead of you then (1) he doesn't love you; and (2) he has a lot to learn about loyalty.
Dump him.
2007-03-07 02:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Resurrected Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him that?.Is he drinking or doing drugs with them that you dont know about.Because hes got a temper that could suggest just that.I would try to find this out.As for letting yourself be treated that way,i think you should rethink your relationship values.He doesnt seem to take them into consideration.Does he ?
2007-03-07 02:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him immediately. No matter how much you love him, you don't want it to be your arm or face instead of the radio or wall next time. Please get out of that relationship immediately.
2007-03-07 02:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes them better than you because you suck and can't form a complete idea to get an answer to your question. Dump the guy and find one that isn't going to break your stuff dummy.
2007-03-07 02:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you hang out with someone doesnt mean you have to do as they do. You will do as you wish, as you are your own person. I know this from experience.
2007-03-07 02:12:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋