Does a broken heart heal? Do you ever love again?

Question

My grilfriend of 5 years left me, then 2 days later came back telling me i was the love of her life and she could not be without me, wanted to marry me, etc..I gave her another chance. We had a dream vacation planed for this summer. 2 days later she calls me and tells me she is not sure about how she feels and she breaks up with me. I gave this girl my all, all i had, i gave to her. I treated her like she was the last woman on the planet. All my dreams in life were always with her by my side. I don't know what to do, i feel like crying at all times of the day, no matter how busy i am she is always there, inside of my head. WIll this pain ever end?

I never did anything to her. I don't Drink, Smoke, i never cheated on her, never lied to her, i didn't even have eyes for anyone else. I was always there for her. I am hard working, own my own business, what more do women want?

Answer 1

Its never gets any easier in the cateegory of love. But I can tell you this that your heart will heal. And just stay busy..and you will see that if both of you are meant to be, then you will end up together. Just always keep in mind...Everything good happens at its own pace. Maybe she is just scared of commitment. But dont worry about her. because you will learn to love again. And the pain will eventually turn in to memories, and slowly drift away from your life.. Just have faith...Because GOD will guide you. God has a plan for everyone..

Answer 2

It might not feel like it - heart ache is painful other wise it would not be called an ache. There is no easy way out of it - the only way is through it. The best way to get over someone is to surround yourself with good friends and people who love ou and will be there for you - have some good times and laugh even f you think you won't be able to do it - just try to go out and have a good time. Things you take out of your life must be replaced with something else _ I'm not saying get a new girl friend, even though it might help ease the pain it's not a solution, but you have to replace the time and afford you spend with her with something else - as long as it's fun, you will get over the pain quicker

Answer 3

I have been through this myself and it is hard at first and it seems like the pain will never go away, but guess what it does, eventually it does. You will always think about her, but not with all the pain. It sounds as if she is the one confused and not sure of what she wants, which doesnt make for a good relationship away. You'll find the right one for you and she wont be wishy washy. Hang in there and dont dwell on something thats gone. Five years is a long time, but good experience. Good luck!!!

Answer 4

Wow I feel your pain man, I 've been there and done that so Listen to this piece of advice I'm giving to you (and trust me I'm not going to lie to you or sugar coat things either) You're going to hurt and feel pain for awhile that's only natural when you love and care for somebody so deeply that you can't see yourself with anyone else and then that person leaves you, but there honestly is no cure or method to make the pain go away except "Time itself". Think of it like this You just got a deep cut in your arm and your going to need stitches, you have to let the wound heal over time before you're able to take out the stitches and your arm looks back to normal that's exactly the same way it works as far as your heart just give it time and soon your scars will heal trust me!

Answer 5

I am so very sorry this happened to you! And although you are hurting now, try to remember that it's better it happened now, then after you got married.

Yes, broken hearts do mend, but it takes time. You will meet another woman one day that can show you the same amount of love and care that you show her. Try to remember that, and I believe in FEELING your pain and letting it out, because it will go away sooner than if you just try to bury it.

Answer 6

Yes, it will end! The first thing you need to do is get rid of things that remind you of her. At first, everything will, but you need to train your thoughts and keep resisting the ones that are about her! It's hard, but distraction is a skill, and it works wonders the longer you do it. Just remember that this is a phase - it WILL end. But the only way out is through (sorry about the cliche, but I speak from experience).

Answer 7

She left you for a reason not disclosed by you. There must be something that you are doing or not doing to make her leave. The only thing I would suggest is to get over her and make some moves on her hot friends. When you get tired of her friends and still want revenge...go for her mom. Good times!!!

Answer 8

You treated her as if she were the last woman on earth? wtf? That's no way to treat a woman.

Chances are, she felt that you were being too needy and clingy. From your current state and reaction, she was right. Yes, you can move on. Get busy. Hang out with your guys, get involved in your community, etc. Put everything into your school/job/etc. Suck it up and be a man. You can take this, and you'll be better because of it.

Answer 9

awww...i'm soo sorry!!!...yes it does heal..but u have to allow it to heal! u hav to give urslef time to get over this break up! try to avoid contact with her for a while so that you dont hurt more than you already are!! erase her number from ur phone...take her off ur buddylist...get rid of her pictures..etc. u may need to give urself some alone time, however, still, go out and allow urslef to have a good time!! maybe u should go out and try to meet new people! Yes.. u will love again but it will take some time!!!!

Answer 10

It does eventually but it does take a lot of time. And you do love again its just a different kind of love depending on what your last relationship was like but when you do love again you become more wiser of who you are with and you also have less trust. But you do eventually move on trust me it gets better.